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My gay best friend!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Menaki-Neko, Apr 6, 2012.

  1. Menaki-Neko

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    I hate it when some people refer to me as their "gay best friend." This video I found basically speaks my mind:

    I'm NOT Your Gay Best Friend! - YouTube

    What are your thoughts on the subject?
     
  2. amwm2wm3

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    I dislike this, too. I don't get it now that I'm out of high school, but it was quite frequent then. I should just be your friend, full stop.
     
  3. ... That guy has reeeallly nice pecs :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Oh good, I'm not the only one who thinks so. :lol:
     
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    I haaaaate this mentality, for all the reasons the guy listed in his video.
     
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    I remember my friend once saying, 'I wish you were gay so that you could be my gay-best friend'. She'd be so disappointed if she knew, because I hate shopping, etc.

    I'd suck at being a 'gay-best friend'...
     
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    We're all "disappointing gay best friends" :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  8. Zaio

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    Are you kidding? I LOVE it when my female friends call me their gay best friend, not too sure about it when guys do it though, only had a few guys say that anyway.

    I'm not too sure why I love it, I don't match up to the sterotypes and they all know it too. Other than liking dancing a lot I'm a straight guy who's gay, yet they still refer to me as their gay best friend. Because they know, maybe that's why I don't feel so harmed by it, I like it :slight_smile:
     
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    well my 2 best friends are both girls and they sometimes joke about it, well when i first came out they were like yay always wanted a gay best friend but thats about the only time theyv said it.
    But im pretty much the sterotype gay best friend, i dont think im feminin but we go shopping way to often and have movie nights and i also have to listen to all the shit girls say to gay guys i get annoyed with that sorta stuff. But they love going to town with me because they love the gay club because they dont get hit on
     
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    Defuntally not the only one:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  11. Davey Wavey always gets me smiling :king: