Ok so here's a few questions I have to ask - How do y'all feel about friends/family tip toeing around the subject of being gay. Because my mum and friends use the word "queer" as a "bad" word. As in calling someone/thing queer. Because I personally love it once they notice and try to change what they're sad, like "well not queer more......." I find it highly entertaining to see them in such uncomfortable positions. At least they're trying, and I'm such a bad person for it lol. Another thing that has been bugging me is this, Does anyone else out there talk to themselves? Not aloud but in their heads? Because I do all the time, and by that I mean unless I watching a movie, but I do it most of the time then as well, or whenever I'm listening to my ipod, but again I still do. I'm always talking inside my head and have hundreds of conversations a day. I was just wondering if I was the only one or if this as "normal"?
Well in my head I do, but its not really a conversation... its more like telling myself something lol. Its weird. I think everybody talks to themself's, atleast in their head. /Ty
I talk to myself in my head... I have a pretty... weird imagination. Sometimes, I just want to put whatever I imagine in words, but then I lose that inspiration as soon as I get to my laptop. And I also talk out loud to myself in the mirror (mind, I'm home alone at my house), and I just saying random jokes and laugh at them... I'm a VERY weird person. I don't really talk to myself when I'm around people, though. So that's good.
Funny thing is, nobody I know tiptoes around the subject. My parents don't know yet, admittedly, but for example, none of the people who know ever slip up and ask if I've got a girlfriend or anything. If the topic comes up, it's always "Found a cute boy yet?"
I only ever talk to myself when i really need to remember something i can't forget. I have an awful memory, so i do often need to repeat things quite often incase it suddenly falls out my ear.
That sounds awesome, well I suppose my friends will learn in time. Most of them only really found out I'm gay 2 weeks ago and being that we're on school holidays we haven't really hung out, because I sleep in until like 3pm =P.
well my friends and family only asked about it and never said anything bad about it,with the exception of a few. I talk in my head randomly,but mostly when I talk to somebody and they ignore me.So then I just make the conversation in my head,with my one true friend....ME!!!!
I definitely talk to myself, in my head. Outloud, too (if no one's around). Slightly unrelated, but I have two IM screennames (one for GLBT stuff and one that's not). I've had a couple convos with "myself," just to try to figure out if I act differently with them. I mean, nothing too involved, but it's an interesting psychology experiment. I do have an issue with my sister saying the word "gay" (as in 'stupid') a lot. She still doesn't understand why I get annoyed by it ("well, everyone else says it!"), too. :dry:
