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First Date?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Daveed 7125, May 27, 2012.

  1. Daveed 7125

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    So I have a date tonight with this boy. We're not dating, but I think the possibility is there. Anyway, we're going to be having a campfire, there'll be a tent, and there's woods all around. I was wondering, does anyone have any suggestions on what to do? What to talk about? Do we play a game? Anything would really help. Thank you. :slight_smile:
     
  2. Owen

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    If you're going to have a campfire, you should definitely roast marshmallows and make s'mores. I mean, that's a given. :slight_smile:
     
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    Definitely marshmallows. :slight_smile:

    I suppose it depends on what you like to talk about. What sort of topics do you like to talk about? Do you have anything in common with your date? If you do, that would be a good starting point for a conversation. Once you have established some common ground, let the conversation develop. If he mentions something that awakes a curiosity in you, ask a couple of questions.
     
  4. Daveed 7125

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    Owen- Thank you! Marshmallows are a definite yes! :grin:

    Mirko- Thank you so much! I'm usually not good at starting a conversation, but once we start talking, it'll be perfect. Thank you!
     
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    Hm, sounds like there might be a bit of a story behind this date. :grin:

    Why camping? How'd you meet him?
     
  6. Daveed 7125

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    Steve712- we're both in our school's bands. We met a little while ago on a band trip to Virginia Beach. Both of our schools were invited to a dinner cruise. It was there that we met. We exchanged phone numbers and it was later that night that I told him I was gay. He told me he was too, and my heart skipped a beat. I know, that sounds incredibly cheesy, but I was so happy when he told me he was gay too. Well, we've been talking almost every day since then, and we decided to have a night alone with each other. I'm just really nervous because it's the first date I've had with anyone where it was just us two. Usually, it would be to a school concert, or the mall, or a movie theater. I'm just a little flustered. Hahaha.
     
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    Aw. That's sweet. :slight_smile:

    Bring a board game with you if you're worried you'll be stuck for things to do, but something tells me you'll be just fine. Camping is never boring.
     
  8. Daveed 7125

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    Hahaha. Thank you, Steve712. :slight_smile:
     
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    Let us know how it went. :slight_smile:
     
  10. Daveed 7125

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    Oh my goodness! It was absolutely perfect!!! :grin: we took a walk together through the woods, and i ended up asking him out, and he said yes! thank you all so much! :grin:
     
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    Awesome! :grin:
     
  12. Steve712

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    Aw. :grin: Congrats!
     
  13. Daveed 7125

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    Thank you very much! All of you, thank you. I absolutely love you guys and this site! Everyone is so kind, so considerate, so wonderful! Thank you all! :grin:
     
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    I'm late to the party (and didn't help at all :rolle:slight_smile: but I'm pretty sure it's safe to say you're welcome on behalf of everyone!

    Hopefully you'll stick around a bit? :smilewave
     
  15. Daveed 7125

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    Oh yes, I will definitely be here for a very long time. :slight_smile: and thank you, sir.
     
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    :eusa_danc:kiss::eusa_clap
     
  17. Daveed 7125

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    I couldn't have said it better myself. (; :kiss:(*hug*)
     
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    awwwww...congrats!