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People who are bi: what kind of girls and guys do you like?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Cheese on toast, May 30, 2012.

  1. (bi) peeps, I was just wondering what kind of guys and girls you're into? I'm a bit confused over the fact that I tend to like effeminate guys and masculine girls (not that this is exclusive, just a trend I'm noticing). What do you guys think?
     
  2. Mike92

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    It's pretty much the complete opposite for me.
     
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    I'm not bisexual, but it sounds like you find androgyny attractive. Makes sense to me.
     
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    Guys: Masculine, tall, broad shoulders, stocky (but not muscular, that puts me off)

    Girls: Feminine but not "girly", build is not important, but found that I tend to be more attracted to girls with blonde / light brown hair. With men, I prefer darker hair
     
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    Feminine/normal girls and slightly effeminate/normal/slightly masculine males. I don't lie masculine women or most masculine men, and I don't like feminine men.
     
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    I usually tend to be attracted to somewhat feminine girls or somewhat masculine guys.
    But there's always exceptions. :slight_smile:
     
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    I don't care about people based on gender or sexuality, the people I like are kind, nice, caring people. Gay, bi, straight, male, female, whatever. If you're a good person, I like you.
     
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    Women: I like femmes, and also "geek" types; I like andros too. Butches need not apply.

    Men: I like some kinds of femmes, andro guys are hella fucking hot, and sometimes I like tough guys. Bears need not apply.

    I can look past a lot of things I find unattractive if the personality is right; in fact some of the people I crushed over the most were kind of homely people but really caring and smart.
     
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    women: feminine.
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    I love darker hair, and red hair on both.
    I also love clever people with similar interests to my own...
    and I like those who are sensitive and strong. Nice is good :slight_smile:
    But, when it comes to love, I don't care about looks, femininity, or masculinity!
     
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    For the most part it's the same thing either way for me.

    Someone who's athletic or can atleast make an attempt to like sports. They're smart, speak correct English and are easy to talk to. I can't be with an over emotional guy or a very girly-girl. I don't tend to go for girls who dress as guys. I don't mind if they're geeky, jocks, or any other kind of sterotype. I prefer someone who doesn't wear extremely baggy clothes!
     
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    ^This^ I don't really have a type. At least not physically speaking.
    Character wise I like people who are confident, romantic and/or optimistic/positive.
     
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    I would have to agree with you Linthras. I like people that are intelligent, and well spoken. I am athletic myself and like doing sports with the people that I love.
     
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    Masculine and feminine men. Feminine women only. Red hair on women. Light to dark hair on men. Not picky on any variable though, if I like you, I like you...
     
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    Intelligence is important. I have to be able to have an intelligent conversation with someone. Physically, I'm more attracted to androgynous people. I am generally turned off by masculine men, or extremely girly girls. Genderfuck people completely confuse me, though.
     
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    Women: feminine, thick, nice lips, mixed race, ones with a sense of humor and/or nice personality
    men: femmes and nelly types
     
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    It jumps around physically. But the constant is taking care of themselves and I'm a sucker for those with blonde hair and blue eyes for some reason. Girls I really dig nerds in personality level. My dream girl would be a girl I can be partners with and feel like "the man" with lol - her protector, the one and only. Ideal boyfriend is oddly just a guy I think is cute, can be friends with *more with... Basically girls bring the romance, guys bring the want to play video games and watch a movie then make out? side out.
     
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    I'm the same way...I tend to like athletic type girls, and more effeminate type guys....for example I think the whole "emo" fashion (just the fashion...not the stereotypical behavior...) is f***ing hot lol :icon_redf For girls and guys actually...lol

    I guess a good way to put it is I like people who don't really fit the stereotypes/roles of their gender.
     
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    I like girls who have short to shoulder length hair. Average to thick body size I like feminine girls but I like butches too. I like girls shorter than me. I also love good girls and women in uniform.

    For guys I only prefer dark hair I like guys taller than me. They have to be masculine and have bad boy tendencies.
     
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    Girls: Long hair, not much make up, outgoing, and an amazing personality.
    Guys: Talk, Dark, and handsome. Also if he is not that, as long as hes got an amazing personality and/or cuddly, I'll like him.
     
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    Hmm, well I'm sexually attracted to sort of masculine guys but at the same time I really like more feminine guys as well. :rolle: The past 6 guys I've had feelings for were all a little on the feminine side. I don't really understand it.:icon_redf I also like feminine girls. They're adorable. (*hug*)