Has anyone ever regreted loosing they virginity at the wrong time?

I don't regret when I lost my virginity, I regret who I lost it to. It was my (former) friend's boyfriend. I had no idea who he was, I just thought he was my cute neighbour. It wasn't until after he was done that he asked me if I knew my friend, which I said yes to, and then said that he was her ex. He started going on and on about how she was a b---- and was only good for sex. Then I realized that this was the guy I comforted her over breaking up with the semester before and felt like a horrible person. In our first year of university, I told her (she went to the women's college that was part of our school) and she went ballistic. Apparently they were back together and she had no idea that he was bi (cause he's a bit of a homophobe).

I always wanted to lose my virginity before I finished high school, and I did. But I wanted it to be with someone that I truly cared for and who I was in a relationship with. Hell, I lost my virginity before I had my first kiss.

 

I don't believe in regrets but I do wish I didn't loose my virginity to who I lost it to. I wish I lost my virginity to a woman but the past is the past.

 

I regret not losing it.

 

maybe a question to ask is: "why do people put so much store on losing their virginity?"

 

virginity huh? i'll lose it when i lose it. not really care about finding love, sex right now. i'm just enjoying life but i know that when i do fall in love and have sex for the first time, it'll probably shock me to find someone that's interested in me like that that is willing to share their feelings or body like that to me as weird as that sounds. i'm not expecting it to be the best sex or the first person i get involved with to be the one.

 

I think it is because people want as many enjoyable experiences as possible in life. Why not wait for someone special, or in my case until I feel ready for it.

 

Some people regret losing it to the "wrong" person, some think it's fine as long as they were close and comfortable with each other even though things didn't work out, and others still don't put any stock into virginity at all. I guess it really comes down to what it means to you and how special/bonding of an experience you view sex as.

Do realize, though, that even if they're special first times will also probably be somewhat sloppy and confusing because both people are usually a little nervous and don't really know what they're doing.

 

No, I don't really regret who I lost it to, I just wish I were a bit older when I had done it. But unfortunately you cannot change the past and it really has no impact whatsoever on my life, so it's all good.