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Being accepted by ur whole school

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by imout, Jul 7, 2006.

  1. imout

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    hay have any of yall ever been accepted by al the people in ur school
    i have an di just wanted to know if this has happened to any one else
     
  2. suburbs_of_sodom

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    I haven't come out to my school yet (tho probably evryone knows by now cause if you tell a few people then its bound to get out) but i have a feeling that when i do i'll be accepted. having literally half the faculty being gay too might have a small part in that...just a thought...
     
  3. Proud1p4

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    I doing it next year...my 9th Grade. I don't care if im accepted...just as long as i dont have to pretend anymore. I've been accepted by all who matter the rest of the school can go play in posion ivy for all i care.
     
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    Well I was totally closeted (and clueless) during high school but at university I'm pretty sure I was known in the computer science department as "the gay computer science guy." There was this one time, in operating systems class...
     
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    I was totaly out in highschool, wassent bad there were the idiots, but all the girls would slap the idiot guys silly if they had a go at me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Coming out at my school would be like putting a gun to your head and shooting yourself.
     
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    negasta i agree with you!
    yes my school is full of dumbas*** because they think they are the best. so im just waiting to graduate high school and move on with my life.
     
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    Yes, I think waiting until you leave school and move on to work, further education or whatever would be good. There is no point in making life more difficult for yourself!
     
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    I'm out at my high school. Most people can't tell I'm gay because 1) I don't fit their preconceived notions of gay people and 2) I usually keep to myself. So while I'm out, I don't make any extra effort to have people know. It's a lot easier now that I can be myself without worrying about how everyone will react.
     
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    I think I will end up just telling the people that need to know. Theres no need of a press conference! :grin:

    There is this one girl who is a lesbian and I would really like to talk to her, she's so nice and everyone knows shes gay, its really great! everyone loves her. she completely changed between grade 8 and 9 . shes going into 11 now (im a year younger).
     
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    I'm slowly coming out to everyone. I've been telling people its not a big deal if they spread the word, and that it doesn't have to be kept a secret. I've even told people who I am not that close to either. It worked out. I hope to start a GSA at my school this year when we begin.
     
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    I'm completely out at school. When i was in 8th every single person knew and no one gave a shit. And if they did they stayed away from me. I'm a freshman now, so most of the upperclassmen don't even know. But there are a few out seniors so it'll be cool. I come from a pretty accepting town. There are a few other out gay and bi guys. No one really cares.
     
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    i'm out but my outing wasnt like HELLO I'M BI it was more like i would just talk about my girlfriend openly around people and they would just spred the word ...plus i think my whole class got the idea when i participated in both sides of the "what do you want in a guy/girl" and nobody has realy sayed anything sofar so i guess people know and just dont cair
     
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    I only ever spoke to close friends that were girls about it at school, people asked but i was like no, cos they hardy actually cared just wanted some gossip.
    NegastaComing out at my school would be like putting a gun to your head and shooting yourself.
    LOL theres that 2

    Where I am now is more mature but I wait to find anyone who is gay (bloke) all I seem to meet are lesbians...

    Its funny cos at school every kinda would ask or just be to stupid to, but at home they wouldnt have a fucking clue