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How often do you think of your sexuality?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Alexander, Jan 16, 2008.

  1. Alexander

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    For me, it's pretty much all the time. When I'm talking to people, on the PC, going to bed, taking a shower, whatever. It comes into my head randomly and sometimes at embarrassingly awkward times. I think that being gay is pretty much integrated into every aspect of my life. your thoughts?
     
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    I think about it probably around 10 times a day and i probably will until im finally out the the public.
     
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    Quite a lot. :astonished:
     
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    Any time I see / think of someone attractive. Which if they're stuck in my head, can be quite a bit.
     
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    Constantly.Every day.If I ever figure out where I stand on the scale........

    Gay?_______________________50_______________________Hetero?

    :confused: :confused:
     
  6. Ty

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    Well, urm, being on this website kinda provokes the thought a little don't ya think? lol.

    Quite a lot.
     
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    Hmmm...I'd say quite a bit. Too much, probably...
     
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    Way too often. Way too often.
     
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    Well beacuase work is so repetitive I often use Work time to think about my sexuallity. Mostly about how I wish my mom had never found out...and that my friends at least found out before her...Actually my manager came up and said, "You look stressed."
    "Oh just thinking."
    "Well you look stressed."
    "Well...just thinking."
    "What were you thinking about?"
    "Stressful stuff."
    "Like what?"
    "I dunno, stuff."

    I'm real smooth eh ;-)
     
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    It kind of affects a lot of my thoughts.

    For example, if I see a straight couple holding hands or PDAing in public (which happens a lot here), I'm reminded that I'm gay and then I get kind of sad because I can't really do what they're doing.
     
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    Not Yet !!:thumbsup:
     
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    the only time i dont is sometimes when im chatting with my girlfriends
     
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    At the moment, all the time - although only because I'm just starting to figure it out!! I think that as I've become slightly more comfortable I've been thinking of it slightly less (ie every other second rather than every second...). I am way too busy to think about it all the time.... but hopefully once I'm figured out, not too often. I don't want it to be my defining feature, which is why I'm trying not to think about it too much. It is only *one* aspect of my personality, and therefore, should be only *one* of my thoughts, not my *only* thought. (that's the idea, anyway!)
     
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    i know exactly what you mean
     
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    ALL THE TIME probably cause i came out to like the whole school now yay!! but it is in my head all the time
     
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    ummm....a lot.

    especially considering i spend so much time on this site :slight_smile:
     
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    I think of things related to it? Like, boys. :]

    But it's not a part of my every day. I don't think straight people fixate that they're straight; so I don't really focus on my sexuality either. I've just gotten so accustomed to it, lol.
     
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    I also think about it a lot, and all the stuff related to it... like how I can't meet some of my idols because they would probably hate me. >.<
    My friends say it like every five seconds, which gets really annoying.
    But sometimes I actually forget for a few hours. It's nice. And by forget, I don't mean like thinking I'm straight, I just mean it doesn't really cross my mind for a while.
     
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    about 50/50 with other things
     
  20. I think about it a real lot too.