First Kiss - Is my mind just making it out to be something of a big deal

No, you're not crazy. Kisses are serious business.

 

Nah, I can understand that. I have big hopes for mine as well

 

Not crazy. I certainly still remember my first kiss.

It doesn't have to turn into an awkward moment if you take control. :lol: But do keep in mind that your first kiss doesn't have to control or dictate anything - it's just the first of many.

 

Been friends with my current boyfriend for 7 years, known him since 1st grade... was not expecting him to have feelings for me, yet I always had the biggest crush on him. Sat next to him when we played poker, always finding excuses to get him drunk. Let me tell you... that kiss was longed for and extreamly exciting.

 

I don't think it's silly. the first time you kiss someone of the same sex is step toward accepting your sexuality.

The first time I kissed another man it was like a cartoon character kissing. I felt like electricty was shooting through me and I'd rocket right off the ground.

 

I'd like to say I enjoyed my first kiss, but I guess to anyone else it really would seem like an awkward moment. It was my first year at boarding school and a friend in my computer science class sent me a message saying he wanted to ask me something but was really unspecific. Then, we ended up talking a lot more before he found my old online account that said I was gay on it before telling me he liked me. This was a pretty slow escalation over the course of a few months. I invited him to my room after my roommate moved out for his own reasons. It was just us. As unromantic as it seems, we played video games, BUT it was on my bed and I was more or less in his lap with his legs around me from behind. (really, that's all that happened) I invited him to come back later and joked about making out or something. He said that he wouldn't mind all seriously...

So, both of us not having kissed before, we tried to plan everything out and it was a little awkward... We tried a lot more times though in order to get it right... It was... practice hehe. Afterall, what are you supposed to do when someone tries to put their tongue in the first time you kiss you know? hahaha... Too bad he was a senior. I really find myself missing him a lot more often now.

 

I don't think being silly or anything .. I kinda understand how you feel.
I've also never kissed a guy (or a girl for that matter). I want my first kiss to be something truly meaningful/special (or using your word 'magical' because thats a perfect way to say it)

There's been a couple times I've had a dream where I kissed a guy... (I wish those woulda dreams lasted allot longer, and that I would have more dreams like that LOL). I can't explain what it was like/how it felt .. other than to say .wow. and if a 'real' kiss is anything like a 'sleeping/dreaming' kiss .. then, I understand why people like to kiss LOL

 

Well, to me, they've been rather meh as of yet xP

 

I had a similar vision of what my first kiss would be like to your vision. When it actually happened, it was about as different from my vision as it could have been. But let me tell you something: it was just as magical as I had hoped it would be. Thinking about it still sends shivers down my spine. So by all means, have your fantasy. Just remember that it your first kiss might not go down how you imagine it, but that doesn't mean it won't still be amazing.

 

I feel the exact same way so you're not alone in that feeling LOL

There are allot of people on the planet...so probably somewhere out there, there is someone for everyone.

 

Ive been in a relationship for 9 months but Ive never actually had mt first kiss, he lives 6 hours away and we have never me.
Truthfully Ive been tempted to just make-out with a couple of my chic friends and get it over with but I would much rather have my amazing boyfriend be my first kiss.
To me a first kiss should be something to remember, I mean Im never going to forget my first relationship, these 9 months have been amazing and I truthfully hope this lasts, this is your first kiss, it SHOULD be speical

 

I doubt it will be that great. Kissing takes practice.

 

Eh.. I'm sort of a romantic. However, my first guy kiss was pretty underwhelming. It was the night of prom, me and 3 other friends stayed over at this dude's house who had hosted an after prom party. We were all drunk. The other guy was "having fun" with one of the thee girls. The other girl was sitting there awkwardly And then the other guy suddenly kissed me.. If you could call it that. He sort of bit my lip and put his arms around me. We slept together (no sex) and it was nice and all, but I hope for something better next time around with a guy. Currently in love with a girl but I digress.

In short, it's not necessarily gonna be like a Hollywood movie. But, who knows? It might be. Or maybe it'll just take some experience. I dunno. I've only made out with one guy in my life so far, so yeah. Whatever the case, I'm sure you'll ind your special someone and it'll be worth the wait c: