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would you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kuroi, Jul 2, 2012.

  1. Kuroi

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    I need fast answer.
    There is this guy who offered me to sleep with him. I barely know him and don’t feel anything for him. I kind of wonder should i do it or not. Part of me wants to have sex to try it and the other part tells me that i should wait. But the waiting part would be for like 2 years and i don’t think i wana wait that long.
     
  2. RueBea85

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    Me personally I would only ever have sex with someone if it felt right. If there's a part of you that is unsure than I would say that you're probably not ready yet.
     
  3. Messed Up

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    NO! DON’T do it. You’re 17- WAIT. I’m 23, and even I rather wait! Beat off and call it a day. Watch some porn and take a cold shower. But JUST DON’T DO IT!
     
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    it wouldnt happen now but kk i wont
     
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    Hi there! I would suggest you wait. You might regret it afterward especially if you don't feel anything for the other guy. It's okay to wait and to sleep with someone who you have feelings for.
     
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    NO, DON'T! You'll regret it, trust me.
     
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    Thank you all
     
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    I wouldn't, even if I was older, because I wouldn't want to have sex with someone I hardly knew. It's your choice, but I'd say listen to the above comments and me and wait, I'm sure it'll be worth it later on.
     
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    I would probably wait as well.

    For me, there has to be a connection.
     
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    I must agree with all of the above. I've had meaningless sex with guys. It's not worth it. Wait do to it until it's someone you care for. You won't regret it.
     
  11. TonyTheBear

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    I agree with all of these people. I know there's a guy who really wants to sex me up too, but I don't let him get that far. Seeing all of this thread also helps me to keep him from going too far. I know that pressure you're feeling. It's crazy. So once again, please wait for your own good.