Straight versus Gay kiss

[prism]

Kissing guys always feels forced, and I start feeling sick after a while.
I have never kissed a girl. I kind of want this kiss to be with someone special. (:

[Dolphinkid]

Originally Posted by sleeperflick

My lips are still virgin, currently waiting for my first kiss to happen

Lol same here

Lol but I've done this plenty

[Billeraphon]

I have kissed many girls in my time. I am a good listener and have worked on the technique. I have always enjoyed a passionate kiss when the other person is enjoying themselves.

Now that I have come out I am a virgin in the kiss with a guy. I can only imagine how wonderful it will be. Definitely something to look forward too.

[kylegf2011]

I´ve actually never kissed a guy I´ve kissed like 4 girls though, and I didn´t like any of them. The first was from my girlfriend, I actually kissed her more than once, but every single time she started it, and I felt completley forced every time. And there was another with my best friend, when I told her I was gay, we were both drunk, and she just didnt want to believe me and started kissing me, and it felt awkward. I really want to know what it is to kiss a guy, I´ve had dreams about it.... I dont know if it will ever happen though...

[Pinstripe]

My first kiss was with a guy and I really, really liked it, but I was crazy about him at the time. Over the years, I was surprised to find I didn't enjoy kissing other guys nearly as much. My girlfriend is the first girl I've kissed, and I was slightly worried about how that would feel. But of course I can't get enough of it. I told her that I'd only dated one guy who was "a good kisser," but it's more accurate to say that I've only dated one guy that I was really into. That's what makes the difference for me, not gender, but I suppose that's not surprising as a bisexual person.

[Write Away]

I barely kissed a few girlfriends before. I never went beyond a peck because it didn't feel right, so those relationships all ended pretty quickly.

I've kissed one guy, my current boyfriend, and like a lot of other people say, it's always felt natural and right.

[aeva]

I totally agree. I'd been with a fair number of guys before I kissed a girl that I was actually interested in (as opposed to just being a curious friend), and it was totally different! It was much more sensual, there was more passion behind it. I'm not quite sure how to put it into words, but it was amazing. After realizing about a year and a half ago that I was 99% sure I was gay, I decided to 'double check' and tried kissing a guy again. I had to stop him almost immediately...

[thylvin]

To be honest, the only girl/woman I ever kissed was my mother and sister, you know the good night kiss mothers give.

Otherwise I've never kissed a girl like a boyfriend should. Kissing a guy was far more natural and enjoyable for me. If I remember correctly my first kiss was with a guy from Amsterdam who worked here at the UN. We had something going until his contract expired and he was forced to return.

[Phantosmiac]

I haven't had a gay kiss yet, but it sounds so nice

[Spatula]

I've had great kisses with one girl and one guy, and mostly forgettable kisses other than those. The guy who kissed well was straight and relatively inexperienced sexually, oddly enough. He was just a natural at it I guess. I was still figuring things out at the time, and very timid and uncomfortable around guys, and I just melted when he kissed me.

The girl was the opposite--very experienced, but she was also passionate, not disaffected like some people with experience, so she could kiss like a shy and innocent schoolgirl and then escalate into one of those "world is ending" kisses, like she needs me to complete her soul by dumping my tongue into her mouth. Very hot.

[TalkDTalk]

Why did it happen that the crush i had on a male friend didnt eventually work out yesterday after all my effort?

Hello Guys,joined this blog last weekend; this is my first thread in here.should be exciting, but am not.
I found that the crush i had on a male friend of mine didnt eventually work out yesterday. Am a guy in love with another guy. He likes my company a lot;always very excited when we are together, but dont really know why things didnt work out as I prayed fervently that it will.
I had been so optimistic about it it for months now, but sadly he didnt respond the way i wanted. I asked him to kiss me,which he politely refused,chuckling.
He didnt say no, but he just refused while laughing.
And things just went back to normal,like nothing ever happened.

It was like throwing away what i have worked for so long.

This is my sad story

I only came across this guy early this year, and since then, I have not given myself any form of rest over him. I did everything to make him become my friend.
Ever since, we became good friends goin to places together and doin great things.

But he didnt know I was crazily in love with him and didnt know how to go about it.

After gaining so much trust in each other, He told me last week that he would be travelling to see his family far away from this weekend, and may from there remain there.

I couldnt bear to stand and see this guy leave me alone in my stste.
This was what necessitated my making a fast move….
He honoured my invitation yesterday to my office, after he closed from work and went shopping, he called me that he was so tired and may need to go and prepare parking for his trip today. I still encouraged him to come, and he honoured it.
After much long talk, jokes and teases, I had to tell myself that it is now time to make a move.
So I went close to him and asked if I could kiss him.
Now what still baffles me is that he was just laughing and full of smiles all through,like he normally does.

When I insisted, he said we should start going home; I tried to kiss him again, he bent leftwards,
When it appeared he was not willing, I held his hands and we stood up, then he only hugged me, then I started explaining how much he meant to me and how much I cherish him, and that I appreciate our friendship, which he said he felt the same way, then we hugged again and everything went back to normal.

He really left today

I dont know what may follow. He did not promise to call me like he would normally do. Am very worried now.

I'm home feeling so sad

What do I do?

[Spatula]

Friend crushes suck. It's a really painful experience to go through.

Many people here will know what you're talking about. It seems like such a possibility, such a logical outcome, that the months or years you spend sitting on it feel wasted when you learn the other person has no interest at all and never interpreted things the way you did.

Sorry that happened.

I guess.... it isn't completely off topic since you tried to get his attention by kissing him. I'd wager talking first and being blunt might work better than springing a kiss--especially on a guy. How do you know he isn't straight anyway? You didn't really say.

[PianoNate]

**humbly offering self for first gay kisses**

[malachite]

First time I kissed a guy it was like when a cartoon character kisses someone. I felt like I was floating and eletricty was shooting through me