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allyson · 2nd Aug 2012, 04:29 PM

I went on another date with a guy last night,my girlfriend had no problem with it at all knowing I am curious.His name is Gus and he was so kind to me,even said I looked beautiful telling him thank you.He knows I am a guy living as a woman and had a crush on me.Took me out to a resturaunt He goes to and was a gentleman knowing each other.He has a heart of gold,has so much respect for transgendered women like me.Liked my laugh and loves my sense of humor.Gus has it too and this is one thing we have in common.Then it was at a park talking more and I was surprised what we did.Had our first kiss and loves me already.I now have a boyfriend and a girlfriend.A second date is planned next week.I admit I like guys too now,Gus has proven the respect he given me and loves me too.

SunSparks · 2nd Aug 2012, 09:52 PM

:O How nice for you! its definitely not easy to find someone like gus! Congrats!

Also, on a side note... definitely not saying anything is wrong with it - just stating my own opinion... and I know you said that your girlfriend is ok with it - but i would never be able to date two people at the same time. it would probably rip my heart apart xD oh, fragile old me

allyson · 3rd Aug 2012, 06:06 AM

My girlfriend is supportive,she is bisexual and has a girlfriend Mandy whom is bisexual too.

flyinhernikes · 3rd Aug 2012, 09:10 AM

just me thats confused lol. you say youre straight but curious. so wouldnt the guy you had a date with be the gender you knew you had feelings for and your girlfriend be you exploring your curious side because youre a woman. im confused :s

i agree with sun i could never be in a poly relationship, id be like 'no mine back off!' haha XD

but glad you had fun on your date

secretgirlX · 3rd Aug 2012, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by flyinhernikes

just me thats confused lol. you say youre straight but curious. so wouldnt the guy you had a date with be the gender you knew you had feelings for and your girlfriend be you exploring your curious side because youre a woman. im confused :s

Yeah I agree... if you were curious about dating guys, and you're a woman, wouldn't it be "gay but curious"? Just saying haha.

But that's great that you had such a good time! Gus seems like such a great guy.

2nd Aug 2012, 04:29 PM	#1
allyson I am strong Regular Member Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Curious Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 34 Posts: 41 Join Date: Jul 2012	Went out on another date I went on another date with a guy last night,my girlfriend had no problem with it at all knowing I am curious.His name is Gus and he was so kind to me,even said I looked beautiful telling him thank you.He knows I am a guy living as a woman and had a crush on me.Took me out to a resturaunt He goes to and was a gentleman knowing each other.He has a heart of gold,has so much respect for transgendered women like me.Liked my laugh and loves my sense of humor.Gus has it too and this is one thing we have in common.Then it was at a park talking more and I was surprised what we did.Had our first kiss and loves me already.I now have a boyfriend and a girlfriend.A second date is planned next week.I admit I like guys too now,Gus has proven the respect he given me and loves me too.

2nd Aug 2012, 09:52 PM	#2
SunSparks The Naive One Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Open to all at Uni Location: upstate New York (For University) Age: 18 Posts: 1,176 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Went out on another date :O How nice for you! its definitely not easy to find someone like gus! Congrats! Also, on a side note... definitely not saying anything is wrong with it - just stating my own opinion... and I know you said that your girlfriend is ok with it - but i would never be able to date two people at the same time. it would probably rip my heart apart xD oh, fragile old me __________________ If you want to see the sunshine, you have to weather the storm. ~Frank Lane

3rd Aug 2012, 06:06 AM	#3
allyson I am strong Regular Member Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Curious Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 34 Posts: 41 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Went out on another date My girlfriend is supportive,she is bisexual and has a girlfriend Mandy whom is bisexual too.

3rd Aug 2012, 09:10 AM	#4
flyinhernikes EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Location: Scotland Age: 21 Posts: 1,346 Join Date: Jan 2012	Re: Went out on another date just me thats confused lol. you say youre straight but curious. so wouldnt the guy you had a date with be the gender you knew you had feelings for and your girlfriend be you exploring your curious side because youre a woman. im confused :s i agree with sun i could never be in a poly relationship, id be like 'no mine back off!' haha XD but glad you had fun on your date __________________ What comes before part b? PART-AYYYYY

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