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"Why Don't You have a Girlfriend/Boyfriend Yet?? What's wrong with you?"

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ok455, Jan 22, 2008.

  1. ok455

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    ."Why are you waiting so long??"

    How many times have you heard stuff like this in your life?

    Obviously for people who think your straight..



    Well my aunt openly asks me did you get vajaja yet?

    I just simply say i waiting on the right one. Or say something stupid


    My mother always say to me when you fix your self up and get a good job girls are going to be checking you out everywhere Make sure you wear that condom blah blah blah

    And my Brother once said to me when you get into to girls and sex you will understand its not like im 8 years old.(He thinks i hate sex) if i saw his girlfriend naked i would turn gay automatically
     
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  2. Bader

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    i hate people like that ,
    its none of their buissness !
    it happens to me all the time ugh!~
     
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    My mum says it all the time. *sigh* I'm hopefully going to ask a certain boy out soon anyway, going for a walk with him tomorrow alone. ^^
     
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    My mum really expects me to hook up with a nice, handsome guy one day and have a dream wedding and have children...damn, I don't want a guy in my life!!!
     
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    people are stupid.
     
  6. =( I get that all the time from my family, even my nan repeatably asks me if I have a girlfriend yet - and by repeatably I men every night (:confused:) But my nan is sick and we're not sure how long she'll be around for so I think I'll just keep my sexual orientation to myself, at least from her. Also my sister and her friends are always interested in my love life whenever they're around. Blah! They're all so annoying sometimes At least my mum has stopped now that she knows lol but I guess they'll all find out sooner or later seeing as how I'm going to start dating this year.
     
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    Nobody in my life really stresses it, but there are those comments every now and then from family I don't see much, etc. It really does get annoying.
     
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    Oh wow! AT work either people think I am a virgin..or I'm gay (What a surprise for them when they saw my Tattoo ). Anyways to get this one work employee off my back I came up with this story about this girl at a party...and now its' always, "So was she at that party?" "When you going to go (bleep) that girl?" "Dude, you need to (bleep) her."

    UGHHH!
     
  9. STK

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    If somebody I don't know that well asks me I just say I don't and if they ask why I just tell them the truth.
     
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    Not many people asked me that, cuz Ive been out to many people . They dont car ebotu me much and my personal life so they just do their things.

    My mom dont care about me dating people, she just makes sure taht Im getting good grades, but she dont know her son is in love with guys
     
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    I get it all the time from my grandparents. And my mom's friends. It does get veeeeery annoying. And veeeeeery hard to just keep your mouth shut.
     
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    This used to happen to me all the time and i'm straight! I undersdtand it must be harder for you all though, the best way out of it i always find is the "i'm waiting for that one special person i want to be with forever" etc, i know that in my instance it was truely how i felt but anyone can use it. It always made me feel better in my heart and truely believe that one day i would meet my true love, and i did. There is always hope and love for everyone, regardless of everything about them =]
     
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    I'm lucky. My parents don't let me date, so I don't have to worry about anything :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    P.S. Welcome to EC, Emolie!
     
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    Im get really nervous when i ask people out, and i realy don have anyone to ask
     
  15. EthanS

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    Im -100% ready for a relationship.. i dunoo i just feel like.. i wont have a relationship or sumthin.. Im confused
     
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    I didn't think straight people would notice the question. Cool.

    If people ask, I say I'm too busy for a girlfriend. Or if a girl's interested in me, I say I'm already taken.
     
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    This happens to me all the time.
     
  18. bvtsjm116

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    My dad thinks ima get a girlfriend soon... my mom knows im gay, and nobody else cares... unless they do it to make fun of me for not having one ;o but everyone else knows im shy and would probably not have a girlfriend.
     
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    Surprisingly my parents never asked me when I'm gonna hook up with a girl or if I have a girlfriend...Strange....
     
  20. EthanS

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    My dad used to ask when am i going to bring a girl friend home for a joke i think , but i dotn mind him askin since it dont biother me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:.. and my work collegaues ask do i have a girlfriend ..