OK so I thought I could trust a guy in my class but it turns out he was telling people that I'm bi... So one day I walked into class and all these guys come around me and start making gay jokes... And what I said " If I'm so gay why do I have a girlfriend and you dont?" ( which I did at that time ) But nonstop for the past like week every guy in both classes cracks a gay joke around me... I cant believe someone would do this:tears:
That sucks. Ths time next week it will most probably be old news and they will have moved on to another poor unsuspecting victim.
Have you confronted the asshole yet? If I was you, I woulda been like "Why the hell have you been tellin people what I told you?" But if you don't want to do that and don't want to start more drama, I would probably just keep denying it and ignoring it because he doesn't have any proof, does he? You can PM me if you wanna talk about this. I've been through basically the same thing.
why dont u confront you "friend" about it, and if gets an attitude, deck him in his face!!! that's what i would do, and all those people making jokes at you, don't get upset/sad, get even.....good luck
Its not really that bad that it got out, its just that I actualy thought I had someone that would understand... But then he tells everyone.. Anyway I'll eventually get over it D: I hope...
My best friends taught me the right moment to say F*** YOU and my advice is to learn to hold your tongue until the right moment.
i'm really sorry. but what doesn't kill you will make you stronger. perhaps this will help you to build self-esteem. if you beleive in yourself, and refuse to let them cow you, they will stop bothering you. then you will feel proud that you can be open and not care what other people think. also remember that the biggest homophobes tend to be the gay people with the worst denial problems, so you should pity them. keep your head up, you're in the right.
