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Old 9th Aug 2012, 04:00 PM   #1
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Default Been awhile update :)

Well its been a while since Ive been on here. Probably no one that helped me remembers but I figured itd be nice to update.

Still haven't done anything with a guy, on the contrary, I've gone out with two girls. One unfortunately took advantage of me telling them about my confusion and twisted it into breaking my heart, but no worries. Finally went and danced like crazy at my first gay bar and loved it! Everyone was so nice and just there to have a great time!

So even though I'm still open to the idea and experience of being with a guy, and I feel comfortable with voicing my opinion about sexy guys , I feel confindent that I'm straight. In fact, a wonderful girl from Sweden whom I interned with at a zoo, I believe has stolen my heart and I cannot wait to take her out on a wondrous date next year

Thank you guys for all your advice and loving support even though you know nothing about me other than I was hurting from hiding my sexual confusion. I recommend this site to anyone that is in that situation. I Love you all very much!
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Old 9th Aug 2012, 06:34 PM   #2
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Default Re: Been awhile update :)

Well, I'm glad to hear things are working out for you. Just because I feel obligated to throw it in... liking girls doesn't default to you being straight, maybe you're actually bi. Though really, it doesn't matter in the end, because you say you're comfortable with whatever you are.

It's always nice to hear stories with happy endings like these.
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Old 9th Aug 2012, 06:53 PM   #3
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YAY! I'm so glad that you seem to be comfortable with your life and your feelings! I hadn't had the pleasure to meet you before but hi!
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Old 9th Aug 2012, 07:54 PM   #4
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Default Re: Been awhile update :)

MC-Like I said, I'm totally open eing into the experience. But ever since I started talking about the possibility of being into guys, I've felt less sexually attacted to them. (Dainel Craig can rock my world any day) but if it happens it happens :-)

And hello Mr. Sun, its a pleasure to meet you :-)
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Old 10th Aug 2012, 12:56 AM   #5
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Default Re: Been awhile update :)

Hey, I actually DO remember you!

And good to see you're pretty comfortable where you are. Being OK with "whatever happens, happens" and "I'll just see who I'm attracted to, when I'm attracted to them" is not a bad attitude.
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