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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Boy Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone or Anyone who ask/wonders Location: Alaska Age: 14 Posts: 548 Join Date: Jul 2012 | Just like what the title says, when did you found out you were gay/lesbian/bisexual I found out I was gay in fourth grade after I was attracted to my classmate. At first I was thinking like "He is only person I am attracted." Then sixth grade came by.
__________________ Just be who you are and don't let anyone change you. |
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| Student of Chivalry Full Member ![]() Gender: Male (Feminine, Crossdressing) Orientation: Bisexual (Trans*-Positive, Demisexual) Out Status: Some people Location: Helena, MT Age: 24 Posts: 3,388 Join Date: Apr 2012 | I knew I was queer in middle school. It was a scary thing, because it was definitely not safe, and I had nobody to talk to about it. |
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| Let the journey of life continue! EC Moderator ![]() Gender: Let's say Pangender! Orientation: Let's say gay!! (Homoromantic Demisexual) Out Status: Out as pan to most, out as gay completely Location: Central and Northern Ohio Age: 20 Posts: 7,047 Join Date: Jun 2011 Tournaments Won: 9 | I knew that I was not straight in in my 8th grade year.
__________________ The tide of history only advances when people make themselves fully visible. -Anderson Cooper |
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| that guy Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: close friends and a sister Location: columbus, ohio Age: 17 Posts: 169 Join Date: Aug 2012 | I guess I found out when I was 7 or 8, took me a while to accept it though.
__________________ If a tree falls in a forest and only a mime was around to hear it, how would the mime convey the sound that said tree made? |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Age: 16 Posts: 374 Join Date: Apr 2012 | I had my first thoughts at about six. I made my realization around sixth grade. In eighth grade, I finally accepted it.
__________________ "I've got my life in a suitcase and ready to run run run away I got no time cause I'm always trying to run run run away" |
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| Well Known Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Pretty much anyone who wants to know. Location: Massachusetts, USA Posts: 170 Join Date: Apr 2012 | Spring of this year, I fully 100% accepted myself. Although since Christmas I had been questioning.
__________________ Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. - Robert Frost (Road Less Traveled By) |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Boy Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone or Anyone who ask/wonders Location: Alaska Age: 14 Posts: 548 Join Date: Jul 2012 | Also when I found out I was gay, immediatly, I accepted myself. I was born not to judge people for who they are or what they are.
__________________ Just be who you are and don't let anyone change you. |
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Trans Male Orientation: I like girls :) Out Status: Some people Location: Montréal, QC Age: 24 Posts: 1,792 Join Date: Dec 2007 | I knew I liked girls in grade three. I didn't put a name to it until I was fifteen. I didn't figure out I was trans until I was 21 though. |
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| The Naive One Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Open to all at Uni Location: upstate New York (For University) Age: 18 Posts: 1,176 Join Date: Jul 2012 | Hmmm... I guess I should have known by 3rd grade but I was too naive for any of that... I think by 7th, I was questioning, and by mid 8th I knew and was fine with it.
__________________ ![]() If you want to see the sunshine, you have to weather the storm. ~Frank Lane |
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| as queer as a clockwork orange Full Member ![]() Gender: Comfortably female, but androgyne-minded Orientation: Somewhere between bi and pansexual Out Status: School/Friends, Some Family & Therapist Location: Monument, Colorado Age: 14 Posts: 950 Join Date: Jun 2012 | Well, I've always known I was different, But I wasn't really sure if it was a sexuality thing until the 6th grade... Only very recently have I come to understand and accept that I'm Lesbi-fluid/Homoflexible (as in, spring this year). So I'll say eighth grade was when it all came together for me for sure. ![]()
__________________ "You're perfectly flawed, You're perfectly incomplete. Like cracks in the glass, And faded photographs..." ~Otep <3 Last edited by AshenAngel; 11th Aug 2012 at 10:30 PM.. Reason: grr. typo. |
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| Well Known Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A few people Location: Idaho Age: 24 Posts: 126 Join Date: Jul 2012 | I knew I was a lesbian when I was in 10th grade, when I realized I had feelings for this girl who at the time was my best friend.
__________________ ~It's not a phase. It's me.~ |
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: To one person only Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 427 Join Date: Jun 2011 | I knew in middle school that I was different. It really sunk in in high school when I was attracted to some of the guys in school. I was like ok at least I know for sure now, so I accepted it. |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Most Know; Open About It Location: Long Island Age: 15 Posts: 738 Join Date: Jan 2012 | I realized I liked girls in spring of grade 6. But grade 8 (this year) was when I knew for sure that I was bisexual (well I think I am...), because before that I went back and forth from gay to bisexual and so on. |
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| Stole My Heart Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 23 Posts: 588 Join Date: Aug 2012 | I've always had a clear understanding that I was attracted to boys, I think the first time I identified as 'gay' was when I was 6. Living in a very religious household made me feel ashamed for most of my life, but actually when I discovered Lady Gaga at 18 I felt like maybe it's okay to be who I was meant to be. I came out shortly after and I can honestly say I'm happier and more secure now then I've ever been. I love being gay! ![]() |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Location: Scotland Age: 21 Posts: 1,346 Join Date: Jan 2012 | when i watched monkey trouble or whatever its called and hocus pocus. thora birch you babeeee <3
__________________ What comes before part b? PART-AYYYYY ![]() |
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| Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A few people Location: Australia Posts: 16 Join Date: Jul 2012 | In retrospect, the first signs popped up at around 7, but at the time I didn't really think anything of it. My parents had taught me that some boys loved boys, and that that was fine, but as far as I can remember not a word was said about girls. So I just kind of assumed that all other girls thought like me, too. It wasn't until I was about 12 that I started to think 'Hey, wait a minute,' and after that I figured it out pretty quickly. |
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| Formerly Cornella93 Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Double Gold Star Gay Out Status: College, mom and some people from home Location: Los Angeles Age: 19 Posts: 1,166 Join Date: Feb 2012 | Looking back, the signs started popping up around 8-10, but I didn't even begin to think that I might be gay until 8th grade.
__________________ "All the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me. You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you." - Walt Disney |
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| Oh hai! Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: ohio Posts: 243 Join Date: Jul 2012 | I found out after an anatomy project in 6th grade. It took me about a year to accept. |
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| Love Full Member ![]() Gender: Genderqueer Out Status: Most are aware to some degree. Location: Virginia/NC Age: 25 Posts: 2,027 Join Date: Aug 2012 | Sexuality- I realized I was bisexual in highschool. But I have a definite preference for men over women. I'm very picky with my women. Gender- I always knew I was the opposite gender of what my body was. I think my family always knew it, too. Although they don't all know it now. Weird how that works. And it wasn't until maybe a year-year and a half ago I moved into the genderqueer label.
__________________ * * * If you get lost, you can always be found. Just know you’re not alone. Cause I’m going to make this place your home. |
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| A wave came crashing... Full Member ![]() Gender: Dude Orientation: Other dudes Out Status: Out to all, except ex and her family Location: Birmingham, UK Age: 31 Posts: 2,787 Join Date: Jul 2012 | With the benefit of hindsight, I knew at the age of about 11. It's taken me the best part of 20 years to accept it though.
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