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sol4r · 15th Aug 2012, 07:31 PM

Hello everyone! So, lately I've been spending quite a lot of time with this girl I know from school who's pansexual and sort of introduced me to this local lgbt youth thing, and I've been sort of developing a crush on her. With my two previous girlfriends, they asked me out, so I actually haven't asked anyone out on a date before. I'm pretty sure she likes me, too. How do I bring it up? What would be a good first date for two teenagers? I'm so inexperienced, heheh.

Gen · 15th Aug 2012, 07:35 PM

You dont have to present roses and be all formal lol. Just ask her if she wants to hang out. Once you guys are alone than fate will takes its course ^_^.

castle walls · 15th Aug 2012, 07:45 PM

How you ask her out is really up to you. Usually, when I ask someone out, I say whatever sounds like a good idea at the time

. You can tell her that you're interested and would love to take her out sometime.

I think a good first date for teens would be getting coffee or something similar. It'll give you guys time to talk and get to know each other a bit better. If you can incorporate something she likes into the date that would be a great idea. For example, if she loves plays you could take her to a local college play and get coffee afterwards. College plays are usually cheap and are often during the afternoon.

Other date ideas you may want to think about:

mini golf
skating
watching sports (like going to see a basketball game or something)
laser tag
go to the zoo
go to an arcade
paintball
see a movie
see a local band
museum (if she likes that kind of thing)
picnic
go on a hike
frisbee golf

Those are just a few cheap ideas that I thought of. Good luck!

15th Aug 2012, 07:31 PM	#1
sol4r Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to whoever asks, but still uncomfortable Location: Indiana Age: 16 Posts: 88 Join Date: Jul 2012	How to ask someone out? :o Hello everyone! So, lately I've been spending quite a lot of time with this girl I know from school who's pansexual and sort of introduced me to this local lgbt youth thing, and I've been sort of developing a crush on her. With my two previous girlfriends, they asked me out, so I actually haven't asked anyone out on a date before. I'm pretty sure she likes me, too. How do I bring it up? What would be a good first date for two teenagers? I'm so inexperienced, heheh. __________________ "It must be hard to keep a low profile when you’re always overhearing awed voices whisper, 'It’s that guy who has a blog.'"

15th Aug 2012, 07:35 PM	#2
Gen The Epitome of Psychotic Brilliance Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: My Closet is Made of Glass ( ._.) Location: California Posts: 1,661 Join Date: May 2012	Re: How to ask someone out? :o You dont have to present roses and be all formal lol. Just ask her if she wants to hang out. Once you guys are alone than fate will takes its course ^_^. __________________ Confidence Should Never Be Mistaken For Arrogance. Arrogance Is Believing You Are Without Flaw. Confidence Is Accepting That At The End Of The Day, Besides These Flaws, You Are Still Beautiful.

15th Aug 2012, 07:45 PM	#3
castle walls EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual/Bisexual Out Status: Some people Location: Western USA Posts: 682 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: How to ask someone out? :o How you ask her out is really up to you. Usually, when I ask someone out, I say whatever sounds like a good idea at the time . You can tell her that you're interested and would love to take her out sometime. I think a good first date for teens would be getting coffee or something similar. It'll give you guys time to talk and get to know each other a bit better. If you can incorporate something she likes into the date that would be a great idea. For example, if she loves plays you could take her to a local college play and get coffee afterwards. College plays are usually cheap and are often during the afternoon. Other date ideas you may want to think about: mini golf skating watching sports (like going to see a basketball game or something) laser tag go to the zoo go to an arcade paintball see a movie see a local band museum (if she likes that kind of thing) picnic go on a hike frisbee golf Those are just a few cheap ideas that I thought of. Good luck!