First Time

[paul]

I realize this may be the wrong section. But what was your first time like (sex if I am going to be blatant). Not too graphic, more the story behind it than the details. Doesn't just have to be same sex, can be if your first time with either gender

[Pain]

Awkward and sneaky. He didn't even take off his clothes. Little dick. He bit me and I didn't want bitten.
Although, it didn't hurt at all.

[ok455]

It was funny imo we had sex on a school trip when we was 13 in a maze in the corner. I am so glad we didn't get caught at the time

[AshenAngel]

I haven't- but I always picture it'll be somewhere unique and intimate. And I'll give. I don't like the concept of me recieving for some reason...

[Romi]

I'm gonna sound like the biggest asshole. But I remember very clearly...it was my mother's birthday, or the day right after. I was very, very angry at her for what she was ding upstairs [sex, mind you] with that douchebag man that I told her was no good. [I was right.]

Out of sheer anger, I ended up losing my virginity right there on the living room couch. It's not like I was afraid she was gonna walk in or anything. I could perfectly hear what she was doing.

And just to make it clear...I didn't do it out of spite or vengeance. I know that's what it sounds like. But I was going crazy. I was on the verge on tears. My relationship with my mother back then was very ...well its complicated now. Back then it was all sorts of bullshit tricky and explosive. I wanted a distraction. And as ironic as it is...my distraction from sex was sex itself.

Do I regret it? Kinda. But really...you cant change it, so why bother worrying about it? I just don't like to remember it because of how it happened. It just makes me think of shitty times with my mom. We've gotten better over the years. So I'd rather think of that.

[Ventus]

I have yet to be deflowered. I hope there's no bleeding.

[shy]

still looking for the right guy to do it for the first time

[wc1]

It wasnt funny at the time but now that I think back it is incredibly funny, a lot of nerves, a lot fumbling about. Not very good, to the point where I'm surprised I ever went back for more! Its good now though!

[CTJ]

I haven't had sex with a guy yet, the idea kinda scares me at this point. But when i was still under the impression that i could turn myself straight, i had sex with my girlfriend and it was the most awkward and unpleasant time of my life. It felt like it went on for hours and i was focused on trying to look like i was into it. Well i never tried it again after that and i pretty much knew there was no way i could turn myself straight.

Funny thing is, i think she got pregnant, so i clearly did something right. She took her pills or did something i dunno, all i know is that she didnt keep it because she didnt want a kid. So i lucked out with that one.

[stephenjack]

Originally Posted by CTJ

Funny thing is, i think she got pregnant, so i clearly did something right. She took her pills or did something i dunno, all i know is that she didnt keep it because she didnt want a kid. So i lucked out with that one.

OMG stop that is too funny (I'm sure not at the time to you)

[Aria]

It was really bad.

We tried to do some light bondage by blindfolding and trying wrists. Only there wasn't any rope or anything so we tried to do it with a towel... around the handles of a dresser drawer.

Needless to say that didn't work.

[Gen]

Originally Posted by Romi

Out of sheer anger, I ended up losing my virginity right there on the living room couch. It's not like I was afraid she was gonna walk in or anything. I could perfectly hear what she was doing.

Well someones ballsy ^_^.

[sol4r]

Ohh man. When I was convinced I could turn myself straight I...sort of? Had something? I mean it wasn't like full on actual sex but it was sexual stuff and it was terrible and unnerving and uncomfortable and I figured out I didn't have any attraction whatsoever to boys that day. I mean, I knew before that, but that was the final nail in the "well I guess I really AM gay" coffin.

[justinf]

Originally Posted by Ventus

I have yet to be deflowered. I hope there's no bleeding.

Oh God, I think there should never be. I'd freak out!

As for me.. my first time with a girl was really really bad, I was like is this seriously what people are so enthusiastic about? It wasn't a total disaster, but definitely not good either. To make things worse, embarrassingly enough I couldn't keep it up through it all, and I was afraid it might happen again so I didn't have sex for like six months after that. I got better at it, though, and learned to like it. That sounds bad, lol! But I really did like it in the end.

My first time with a guy, not so long ago, was amaaaazzzinnggg. I was soooo scared, though, cause he was really experienced and me not at all, but it was with my boyfriend who I love and trust, we took all the time I needed (like all night lol), and it was just a very.. laid back, easy, and relaxed night. It did hurt a bit for me, though, I envy all of you who say it didn't, but it wasn't so bad that I didn't wanna go through with it. Overall it was just a great experience and we've been even closer since we decided to do it

[julia]

Well it was with a guy I barely knew and it was in the back of his car with his friend sitting outside, so it's safe to say my first time wasn't magical in the slightest. It was awkward, I didn't know what to do, and it hurt. It was completely impersonal and in no way intimate. And it's sad that that moment didn't make me realize I was gay. Neither did the next three guys, but the fifth one did the charm when he raped me.
I went off topic didn't I? Well my first time sucked.

[oblina]

My first time was when I was much too young and I was trying to force myself into the straight life >.< my first REAL time was maybe 2 months ago? ~.~

[TheEdend]

Originally Posted by justinf

Oh God, I think there should never be. I'd freak out!

Ahh, yes. There should never be any bleeding! Be sure to take it slow, use tons of lube and stop if it hurts. If you are bleeding then something went wrong

As for me, my first time was with a girl and it was fine. It really was a meh experience. Awkward, funny and it felt good until I started going soft...yeah xD I'm still friends with her though. The first time we spoke after I came out was rather something!

With a guy it was definitely more emotionally driven and it was a lot of fun. Very, very awkward (maybe I'm just an awkward guy ) and the first time we couldn't get it to work. Took us two or three times to finally get a hang of it, but then it was just fun. Never truly enjoyed bottoming until very recently though.

[starfish]

So somehow his foot ended up on my alarm clock. It turn on the radio and changed it to be 23 minutes fast. Took me a week to figure why I kept getting to work early.

[CupidBoy]

Awkward and scary.

[Aldrick]

I'm glad I'm not the only one with a horrible first time experience. I was around twelve at the time, and we were both very sheltered and ignorant kids. When we were talking about what I wanted to try, he was slightly worried that I might get pregnant. That's how naive we were.

It lasted like maybe thirty seconds. I was sleeping over at his place, and his parents were in the other room, asleep supposedly. A short story even shorter; no lube, no preparation, just ram it straight in there in a single thrust. I'm glad I was laying on my stomach, because I ended up burying my face into the pillow and screaming something incoherently.

He leaned forward and had the nerve to ask me, "Does it feel good?" My response was something like, "Take it out. Take it out. Take it out. Take it out NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW!" It probably included some profanity in there too.

The sad part is we kept trying to do it with pretty much the same result. It wasn't until I figured out how to masturbate properly (with lube! - completely by accident) a few months later that I got the idea to use lube. Things got better after that, though we still had a lot more learning to do.

Our sex education manual was his Dad's massive stash of hardcore porn magazines.

This is the reason I'm so sex positive as an adult, to keep people from making the same mistakes that I had to make as a kid, with no education.