just say you are attractive lets date.... oh urm i mean hello. lol just kidding. its an ice breaker though..... lolol no dont use it though it could wrong. i know im female but im not sure it differs from women/men. subtle touches when talking to him. lean in to him if you laugh, see if he pulls away. eye contact and smiling. if you want to be obvious compliment him, but not ott. give hugs or sit suuuper close basically invade personal space, but not ott.
Hello Flyinerhikes, are you sure hugs could help? becos I do that a lot with my crush.And ...and fiddle with his body, waist with style, but when i proposed a kiss, he.......... distance became the order and thats the end of an 8-month crush I nursed ---------- Post added 20th Aug 2012 at 02:16 PM ---------- Pls Guys, Fruitbomb is asking a very important question. give us ideas. I really want to know what steps flirtatious steps to take. am intrested
Everyone calls me a flirt, but I swear is not intentional(.........20% of the time :roflmao. I would say there is a thin line between flirting and being obnoxious. If it is pre-planned than it is probably more on the obnoxious side. Flirting should come natually and shouldnt feel completely obvious. I would say the best advice is to just release your inhibitions say what you feel. Flirting is essentially joking with some possibly of real intentions. It should be something that will make people wonder if you are serious or joking. Not "I LUV U O_O". Make eye contact, smile, laugh, have fun. Its isnt supposed to be serious or stressful. My friends call me a flirt because I am very comical and open, which is good in some ways because only the people who feel the same way can tell if I'm serious ^_^.
Compliments! Once you get to that part, after first talking and introducing yourself, of course. "Damn, how did you get your hair like that?" "Nice watch!" Stuff like that. But, you can even use personal items/styles as a starting point: "Hi, I'm sorry if I'm mistaken, but that ring looks like a ring my [some group] gave out in support of [whatever]... You wouldn't happen to know about that, would you?" or "Oh, hey! Wait... I'm sorry, I thought you were someone else... I swear, you have the exact same hair as [someone admirable]! Do you get that a lot?" Have fun, that's the key
Compliment or neg ? Eg. Neg :hey,your hairs nice, do you use hair spray? Eg.compliment : I love your hair For me I would neg ( unless its my beautiful Amazing crush) it keeps the wondering if yo were flirting and inclines them to speak to you again to find out if you like them. :icon_sad: there's no sexy bi guys in my school, apart from me of course
Nice to know your modest! People have already given you solid advise... But ye, I guess it depends on your "target"? Keeping it subtle at first and then ramping it up would probably be the best option. Maintaining eye contact and smiling, smiling does wonders. Try to laugh at their jokes, even if they arn't funny. Try to make them laugh. Then go onto compliments. I guess positive or negative compliments like you said could work but as I said, it all depnds on your target.
