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A Lot Can Happen While You Are Gone

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by KeanusGuitarus, Aug 30, 2012.

  1. KeanusGuitarus

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    So I haven't been very active on the site at all. This is because of real world commitments. But now that I am back I can fill you in.

    Firstly, My boyfriend and I broke up on good terms. We both agreed that it was not working out. He was the first to mention it, but I was thinking about it earlier in that very week.

    Secondly, I feel betrayed. My mum went off and told my grandmother after she promised not to tell anyone. My grandmother was really fine with it, but I still feel like I can trust no one. Even my friends that I entrusted it with feel the need to tell everyone. And no one asks my permission. Some of those who found out are acting a little weird around me now. I really wish I did not tell anyone.

    Anyway, just thought I might say "I'm back!" :slight_smile:
     
  2. welcome back, sorry family members broke your trust.
     
  3. Dummy

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    Well these things happen. Have you told your mum that you're not ok with what she did?
    And welcome back btw...
     
  4. PurpleCrab

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    Well, that's really too bad that those people you trusted betrayed your trust. I mean, devastatingly bad. It doesn't mean you should trust nobody again; there are, in this world, trust-able people still.

    I remember times when I felt utterly betrayed too by the very few people I trusted the most, in the sneakiness, ugliest way, and I was shaken to my core; it changed me forever. Not in a much less trusting person but in a happy confident person who trusts people to be selfish, stupid, and betray when it arranges them best. Basically, an adult.