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First orgasm?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Reader, Sep 1, 2012.

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First orgasm?

  1. Masturbation (I'm male)

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  2. Masturbation (I'm female)

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    23.5%
  3. Sex (I'm male)

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  4. Sex (I'm female)

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  1. Reader

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    I'm curious, my best (male) friend says that he doesn't know any females who masturbate, I'm like :icon_redf . Yet recently I found out that statistically, half of females have their first orgasm through masturbation. Sorry, I know this is such a strange poll, but I'm baffled! So first one?

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    First orgasm was definitely through masturbation. I was 5 and thought I had broken myself! :lol:
     
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    Huh, I don't know any women that don't give themselves a good fudding.
     
  4. Reader

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    Hahaha! You must have been kind of scared, BROKEN?
     
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    Yeah, masturbation. I know a lot of girls who won't admit to it, and plenty of others who trade tips about what vibrators are best.
     
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    I am utterly confused by how much of a taboo masturbation is. It's worse than anything else, it seems.
     
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    Yeah, it's quite odd! Especially with females. It's almost seen as shameful, yet almost everyone does it!
     
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    It is strange how much of a taboo it is for some women especially. I feel like even though some guys are ashamed of it, it is so heavily represented in pop culture that it's still generally seen as acceptable. With women, I don't know what the deal is. The thing I hear most often is that they feel it is somehow inferior to sex with a partner and something you only do if you don't have one or are not satisfied with the partner.
     
  9. I don't think that's seen as just a female thing, I think it's a common opinion about masturbation in general. As for why it's so taboo for females, I think it's because according to society, women aren't supposed to enjoy sex (and if they do, they're deemed "sluts"); it's something they do to reproduce or please their male partners, which is obviously not true, as well as heterosexist.
     
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    Definitely masturbation, I was like wtf my dick is vibrating!?
     
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    Oh, I forgot to actually answer the question.

    I'm pretty sure hundreds, if not thousands of my first orgasms were through masturbation (ok, although mutual on a few occasions). Take that, taboo.
     
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    Gees I must have been 12 or so at the time. One night while laying in bed I got an erection. I touched it and it felt good, so I kept touching and playing with it. Oh my god it felt so good.

    I thought I had invented something. I had to tell all of my friends about it.
     
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    There's a funny reference in House, M.D. where he's trying to explain to a mom that her daughter is perfectly fine, just pleasuring herself - the mom is not clueing in to what he's trying to say in veiled terms - hilarious.

    Oh and forgot to answer the question, t'was a solo flight :wink:.
     
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    Young enough that I can't remember the occasion. Years before I found out what an orgasm was. I had help, though. Those jets in the hot tub are quite the gift. I was 18 before I figured out how to do it with just my hand...

    Neither of my sisters know how to do it, though, and both think it's weird and taboo. They're straight/cisgendered, I wonder if that has any impact.
     
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    I'm not one to shy away from sex conversation, and I don't undertand why so many girls are, but whatever. My first orgasm was definitely by masturbation, I've never once came while having sex, granted, I've only had sex with guys, though.
     
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    That was about my reaction when I had first orgasm (masturbation), I was 12.
     
  17. WillowMaiden

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    My only orgs come from double clicking me mouse. Jading off's what got me through those strange, troubling, hormonal years--still does-- and I wouldn't take back a single flick. :grin:
     
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    Yup, definitely remember my first orgasm through masturbation. It was completely by accident, too :thumbsup:

    I STILL don't know how to do it with my hand alone. I can only do it while crossing my legs :dry:
     
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    Yeah I was coming up to twelve. I was masturbating and I thought I was about to wee myself.
     
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    Masturbation. I don't remember the specific instance though, I think I must have been very young.