There was a guy I knew in Missouri last year, before I moved. He was quite obviously gay. He was also pretty cute, when he wasn't acting like a clown. Pretty eyes, you know. At the time, I wasn't actually all that into him, but now.... I really regret never having asked him out. He seems a lot cuter in hindsight. Has this happened to anyone else?
Asking someone who's "obviously" gay out is a really bad idea unless they've told you themselves. Even if they are gay, it doesn't matter. I really hate it when people assume I'm gay, because I want to seem straight, because that will lead to a better career. So you shouldn't have unless he explicitly told you he was gay.
I think you would have to have known him to make a judgement like that. He was "breastfeeding" the little plastic doll he got in his parents class as an assignment and asking guys who its father was. ---------- Post added 8th Sep 2012 at 07:05 AM ---------- P.S. The "breastfeeding" wasn't part of the assignment.
