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Would you ever date a porn star?

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  1. Alexander69

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    I don't know if this topic Is appropriate and I know I've been told I do to many threads but I want to know if Im the only person who would date a porn star? And if you wouldn't can you say why you wouldn't so I can see where you are coming from :grin: thanks you guys!*
     
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    No I wouldn't. Reason being is I'm just a very monogamous person and wouldn't be comfortable with them having sex with all kinds of other people, even though it is meaningless and for works sake. Also it'd be weird dating someone that other people "get off" to, lol.
     
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    LOL I guess I should have specified an EX porn star my bad I feel the same way dating a current porn star it wouldn't happen
     
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    I would have no problem dating an ex porn star
     
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    Yay I'm not the only one that made me so happy to see your post thanks :grin:
     
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    I know people who have performed in porn. Some had boyfriends while doing porn. It can be a challenge, but it's possible. Of the people I know, all have had no problem dating afterwards. It's not the first thing they usually tell someone, but it's something they disclose very early in the dating process, and most people don't have a problem with it.

    These days, the stigma of porn is pretty minimal in most circumstances, though there are still a few where it's a pretty big deal.

    All that said... the people I am speaking of who did porn are not like your typical gay porn stars, are not promiscuous, never escorted, didn't have drug problems, and many of the other things that commonly go along with doing porn. So I think the real question should be not about dating a current or former porn star, but dating someone with the baggage (present or past) that often goes along with doing porn, if that makes sense.
     
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    I wouldn't date someone whose current lifestyle wasn't a good fit for me, but if we are only talking about things they did in the past, it wouldn't stop me.
     
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    Porn stars do drugs!? WHAT
     
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    Not all porn stars, and perhaps not even a majority of them do drugs, but the porn industry is full of addicts and people whose "recreational" use is way out of control. Drugs are plentiful at many porn shoots, so models that haven't otherwise been exposed can easily get into trouble.
     
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    Definitely!
     
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    I would as long as I also participated in the movies with him... And preferably in the same ones lol
     
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    Maybe...I really don't know. My only reservations are:

    • The risk of STD's
    • Would I still be able to satisfy them in bed?
     
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    The risk of STIs is a serious concern, but no more so than being with anyone who has had other partners. It only takes one intimate, unprotected encounter to spread STIs, including HIV. And I personally know people who have gotten HIV from a single unprotected encounter, so, as I said, that concern is valid, but applies to *any* partner.

    The issue of satisfying him in bed... not so much. Porn is theater, really, and just because someone is comfortable exposing intimate moments on camera doesn't mean they're any better at sex than someone who isn't comfortable doing that... so if the opportunty ever comes up, don't avoid it simply because you fear you won't be "good enough" :slight_smile:
     
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    Sure, why not. :slight_smile:

    I am not a jealous person in nature at all, so I wouldn't care about the other guys.

    STD wise I always play safe and would expect the same from my partner in a job like that, so as long as we'd both get tested regularly I don't see the issue there either.

    And other than that, porn is a job, and that's mostly how porn stars see it too; nothing more than a job. I'm sure having sex with numerous strangers gets boring real quickly, and isn't nearly as good as meaningful sex in a relationship, so I wouldn't be worried about that.
     
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    Sure.

    Means they're not afraid of sex and they have a paying job. Would make me a little nervous, though, when it comes to having sex. I'm finicky like that, and for the first couple of times, I'd feel like I'm being compared to the pros. I'd probably get over it, though.

    But yeah, if they're my type, then heck yes.
     
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    No. Nothing against them, but I'm the type of person who can't stand the idea of somebody I love getting intimate with somebody else, let alone that being what they do for a living.

    Now I have heard some stories of couples where one or both work in porn, and I gotta say I think it's sweet in a way. However, I'd be afraid they might get hurt, or get something, etc. and I'm the type who worries about these kinds of thing, so it'd be emotionally exhausting for me.
     
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    I think the real question is, would they ever date me?

    My confidence has improved as of late but I am still not (yet) pornstar material...