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Is it weird to have a fetish

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by timster101, Sep 25, 2012.

  1. timster101

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    I have this fetish about guys in uniforms, my boyfriend used my fetish yesterday and turned me on very badly. But i am really wanting to know is it really weird to have a fetish like that? Can anyone tell me i am really wanting to know.
     
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    Everyone has some sort of a fetish. Having a fetish isn't weird at all, some are treated as a taboo by other people but so long as it's consensual there's nothing wrong with it :slight_smile:
     
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    Didn't know liking guys in uniform (or girls for that matter, I've found it really does the same exact thing) was a fetish lol.
     
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    No, a uniform fetish is fairly common. It's not weird at all and rather "vanilla", lol.
     
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    Fetishes are perfectly normal and healthy to express as long as it is done in a safe environment with someone you trust.

    Plus, as far as fetishes go, a uniform fetish is very mild or as Lance put it, "Vanilla."
     
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    As far as a fetish that is a pretty mild (and common) one. Plus there isn't anything wrong with something that turns you on.

    Glass and sweater and comic book get me going, how is that for odd?
     
  7. its not weird at all :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm starting to think it's weird NOT to have a fetish. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    This.

    I actually recently got drug to a "fetish" group on my college campus. It was a very interesting experience. I suddenly realized how vanilla I was. The only fetishes I have ever taken interest in are like gender transformation and forced feminization type stuff. Things clearly resulting from me desiring to be treated like a girl during sex. Since I'm trans I don't think those even really count.

    I feel kind of weird not having any real fetishes. I know people irl with stuff like diaper and balloon fetishes. Why do I have to be so boring? =(
     
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    I do, however, have a wierd fetish if u ask me... I like to wear other people's underwear and socks and masturbate in them (clean and dirty, take a bath right after it)... Do you find that wierd?
     
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    having a fetish I believe is fine.
    acting upon them without the other parties consent is not.
     
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    I have a huuuuge fetitsh with men in uniform!! Its not weird at all :grin:
     
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    It's absolutely perfectly normal. Don't even begin to worry about it, just enjoy it. :slight_smile:
     
  14. Unless the fetish can potentially hurt someone (like pedophilia or "180 days of Sodom"-esque sadism), then it is completely normal. Actually, I think Lex might be right on the nose when saying it's probably odder for someone not to have a fetish.
     
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    Having a fetish is normal.

    P.s uniforms.. :eusa_droo
     
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    There was a thread about fetishes a while back.. believe yours is pretty tame :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: You should look it up if you want to, i'm sure its around here somewhere :slight_smile:
     
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    Uniform fetish is totally normal. My most normal fetish is getting handcuffed. I'm weird.
     
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    depends on the fetish... if it involves pedophillia or beating the shit out of people (like 'Twilight' and '50 shades of grey' respectively, it becomes unhealthy.) If it is simply like someone in a uniform (often a sign that one is attracted to authority figures, and you can unpack that in alot of ways, positive and negative depending solely upon how you behave in such a relationship), there there is nothing weird about it.

    ... but if you want to shove a rusty, spiked medevil mace up justin beiber's pooper, and it is to fullfil a sexual desire, and not to rid the world of him, then thats just weird.
     
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    While someone's fetish may seem wierd to you, or your fetish may seem wierd to someone else, it is not wierd to have a fetish. Nor is it wierd to have more than one fetish. The key words in the former sentence were "may SEEM." It's like this, what may seem (there are those key words again) kinky to you, is a regular activity for someone else. The same can be applied to fetishes, sexuality, and even life.
    You: "Life?" Me: "It's as Tim Burton once said: 'One person's craziness is another person's reality.'" Not that a fetish is your life, or that it is crazy- lol. Anyways, I hope this rant of mine makes as much sence to you as it does to me! :wink:
     
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    Lol I don't think it's weird... but I was always kinda a freak :icon_redf so I let others decide what's weird :icon_bigg