Why are all the cute ones straight?!

metro sexuals... in ny is tasteful.... lemme tell u something though u should transfer to california here no pressure in fashion crisis... which is a drag wanna switch??

 

Of course. It always seem that way. I ask myself this all the time. Especially since I like femme girls, it's like 100% certain that all the cute femme ones are straight. :dry:

 

Preach it sista. So true :/

 

lol and that kind of perception is exactly why no one believes i'm gay

 

Definitely! Straight crushes are main problem right now. I go to a school where no boy is openly gay or bi or pansexual, well you get it.

 

Many of the "straight" people we see on a day-to-day basis are gay, we just don't know it by looking at them.

 

i found it to be the exact opposite.

 

You. Are. Not Alone.

However, once I learn a guy is straight, I more or less lose interest.

 

Right? It sucks.

And side note, I meant to type "it always seems." I hate when I make typos haha

Well y'all are so hard to read! If you don't exhibit the stereotypical signs, there's really no way to tell haha

 

For me, it seems like I can always find gay guys, but never gay girls. Especially cause I, like the girls above, like femme girls.

 

I have the same problem. The girl I REALLY like said she is no longer bi anymore. Just straight. She said she use to like me.

 

This, and I've never had a crush on a guy so I assume I'm incapable of crushes on straight guys.

I can't tell if my college is a plethora of hot and funny gay guys or mess of colourful hipster straight guys...

 

Depending on who you ask, 90-95% of people are straight. So why are all the cures guys straight? Simple statistics.

I feel ya on this one. I LOATHE it when women say, "All the cute guys / good guys are gay." No true. At all. I would know. I can give you the names of several nice, handsome men whom you would love. Just let me grab my "rejected" file.

 

I think it goes both ways for sure.

 

half and half,,,

 

you saying that I am not cute?

*runs off to cry*

I think there is a tendacy to be attracted in part to someone you can't have. I know a few straight guys who feel the same way about lesbian classmates who are no different in the long run to the straight girls, but it is the allure of it being out of reach that tweaks the circumstances for them.

 

The "all the cute guys are gay" complaint by girls reminds me of this diagram:

All the good-looking guys aren't gay, just the ones who are also smart and nice. (joke)

 

^This.

I try not to assume whether someone is straight/gay, because I'm not a "traditional" looking lesbian. The few friends that I have come out to still don't believe me.

You'll only know if you ask! I see gorgeous lesbians every day.

 

Ditto to everything.

Why can't there be a special sign for identifying femme gay girls? I'll never meet any at this rate. :tears: