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Once again just looking to chat =)

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  1. O_Negative

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    Anyone wanna chat? I am always lonely and I like getting to know people :grin:...either here or wall posts. Up to you! I'm happy to listen if someone just needs someone to talk to as well =)
     
    #1 O_Negative, Oct 2, 2012
  2. bubblyhappy

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    Hi. Are u from NYC too. Awesome.
     
    #2 bubblyhappy, Oct 2, 2012
  3. O_Negative

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    Nah, just the state =D...I've been to the city once in my life this past summer. What a place!
     
    #3 O_Negative, Oct 2, 2012
  4. Calico

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    Hey!
    I dunno what else to say now....why is it that when you can say anything you want, you don't know what to say?
     
    #4 Calico, Oct 2, 2012
  5. O_Negative

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    Because pickles. Yep. That's my default answer.
     
    #5 O_Negative, Oct 2, 2012
  6. bubblyhappy

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    Cool. I'm kinda new here at Empty Closets.
    I'm out to my entire family (my family accepts me fully)

    Most of my former friends are long gone since they never bothered to accept me anyway. I normally visit the LGBT center in NYC for support as well.

    At work, no one knows I'm gay. That's a little about me.

    How about u?

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    Nice to meet u too Calico.
     
    #6 bubblyhappy, Oct 2, 2012
  7. O_Negative

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    Until recently I identified as both straight and cis...then I had a crush on another girl (I am female-assigned) and realized that gender fluid exists and i dont always feel female.

    So I am gender fluid and tentatively pansexual...a couple of people know...nobody at home...just a few friends. I go to a fabulously accepting school so with friends its fairly easy (Our GSA, Lambda, is the biggest club on campus =P )

    Nice to meet you. What should I call ya?
     
    #7 O_Negative, Oct 2, 2012
  8. bubblyhappy

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    I really totally understand u. Believe me, I'm a boy as my real natural gender, but I'm more femme inside. My orientation is gay. So when I dated my first bf, we had a psuedo-straight couple role. He loved being the protector. I was more of his princess. We broke up due to a huge age difference of 10 yrs. I used to cross dress when I was a teen, but I still kinda do, I do my nails, hair, shop for skinny jeans, wear bright color tees glittery is cool too. My clothing is influenced by my taste in pop punk music. I also have femme mannerisms such as crossing my legs like most women do and I'm polite most of the time. I'm not flamboyant or catty. I just stay true to what I know.
     
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  9. O_Negative

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    I am not a jock-y boy...thats for sure. I'm a big softie. I am pretty cheery most of the time...my personality doesn't change a ton when my gender changes...

    I've had 2 bfs...fairly long relationships and some good and some bad came out of both...now this girl...well if you wanna read how I really feel go look at my first blog entry on my profile haha...problem is, she's straight and taken =(

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    I'm pretty sure that despite my boy side, she is still not into me as more than a friend =/
     
    #9 O_Negative, Oct 2, 2012
  10. bubblyhappy

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    That's totally cool. I will definitely read your blog posts.
    Don't worry you will find someone you really like :slight_smile:
    That's what is great about the LGBTQIA community is that we celebrate our diversity.
    I hope someday the mainstream world will understand our diversities.
     
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  11. O_Negative

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    Truth! And its cool...she is aware of my feelings as is her boyfriend...theyre both great friends to me...they are both extremely accepting and now I feel comfortable telling her when I think she's being cute or something. Its been a huge help with coping.

    And that's what everyone's fighting for.

    You never gave me a name to call you ^_^
     
    #11 O_Negative, Oct 2, 2012
  12. bubblyhappy

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    Cool. We all have to be who we are. You can call me bubblyhappy. I guess were now friends. :slight_smile: I'm glad we met.
     
    #12 bubblyhappy, Oct 2, 2012
  13. O_Negative

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    True dat! I'm always open to makin friends =D
     
    #13 O_Negative, Oct 2, 2012
  14. bubblyhappy

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    Yes, its comforting to know when someone accepts you, you feel that warmth in your heart and you also feel safe around those people.
    If u want to know my first real name, You can call me Tymi.
    My boy name is Timmy. But the femme form is Tymi.
     
    #14 bubblyhappy, Oct 2, 2012
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    Well you sound fabulous! :grin:

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    #15 Lance, Oct 2, 2012
  16. bubblyhappy

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    Why thank u. I'm totally flattered. Nice to meet u Lance. :slight_smile:
     
    #16 bubblyhappy, Oct 2, 2012
  17. Mad1022

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    I think I'll but in on your conversation like the wierdo I am! So whatsup? My bame's Aatu. Nice to meet you guys! And I'm so jealouse, I do NOT have the nerves to come out to my parents.
     
    #17 Mad1022, Oct 2, 2012
  18. bubblyhappy

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    Hi Aatu.

    Just be yourself. Are u coming out to them as Gay, bi, Les, Trans?
    Are they supportive in the past?
    If I don't fully reply back, its almost midnight here and I work in the day. But I will be here again tomorrow night and nights.
    Keep in touch with me, I'd like to hear more about u.
     
    #18 bubblyhappy, Oct 2, 2012
  19. Mad1022

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    Thanks man :slight_smile: And I'd be coming out as trans. And they are definatley not supportive - just always demanding I do everything perfect >.> It gets very stressful. Thats why I just like to let go and be wierd and crazy sometimes. Its eleven here, so I'll be going soon anyway :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: It means more to me than you may think for you to be so friendly to me, byw. Thank you :slight_smile:
     
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  20. Ticklish Fish

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    Hi/Bye

    I probably shouldn't be here talking, because I should get my pre-lab done.

    But no! Internet is fun!
     
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