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Quick Question: Gay yay or nay?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Grantious, Feb 2, 2008.

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Do you like being gay?

  1. Yes!

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    83.3%

  2. Hell NO!

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  1. Grantious

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    Hey Guys,

    I was thinking being gay is so much harder than being straight... That is in my opinion, Its not so much that i would change it if i could because its such a fundemental part of who i am but it does not mean i have you like it you know?

    So that question is do you like being gay? or do you wish such a thing did not exist?

    Catch
     
    #1 Grantious, Feb 2, 2008
  2. Paul_UK

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    20 years ago (when I was still closeted) I would have said NO.

    Now I am out, have a partner and some great gay friends, and am completely comfortable with who I am, it's a definite YES.
     
    #2 Paul_UK, Feb 2, 2008
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    I know life will be "harder", but the idea of being in a relationship with a man appeals to me much more than with a girl. The idea of having a guy wrap his arm around me, of a chest I can lean into, not having boobs get in the way (I like being closer) is just something that appeals to me. So, yes, I do like being gay, even if it might make certain aspects of my life harder.
     
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    Yep, without a doubt. Of course our lifestyle is going to be a lot harder, without stating the obvious reasons, but I seriously would not change it for anything.
     
    #4 CelebrityHead, Feb 2, 2008
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    wow pretty 1 sided responce!, yeah the only part i hate is that its way harder 2 find someone! :-(, even though i've been told that i wld not last long it i where out.. well i can pray W00T lol he he he
     
    #5 Grantious, Feb 2, 2008
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    Whoever said that sure isn't lying :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #6 CelebrityHead, Feb 2, 2008
  7. Grantious

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    you're 2 sweet :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #7 Grantious, Feb 2, 2008
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    GAY YAY!! I wouldn't change my sexuality for anything.
     
    #8 GlindaRose, Feb 2, 2008
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    i LOVE that enthusiasm ^^^^
     
    #9 Grantious, Feb 2, 2008
  10. Levi

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    I answered yes, but that's because you caught me on a good day.
     
    #10 Levi, Feb 2, 2008
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    It's who I am. It can make me feel a bit down at times, but even straight people can feel insecure about themselves.

    Even though i have not told any close family or friends, it is still not something i would change. The more we are happy with who we are the stronger we become in being recognised and being accepted.
     
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    ^^ i like that its heart felt
    *hugs
    SMISH
     
    #12 Grantious, Feb 2, 2008
  13. Leigh

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    yeah but i think relationships are hard in general. not that i really have a frame of reference, but i dont think being straight necessarily makes it easier.

    most of the guys i like are gay!!!:eusa_doh:
     
    #13 Leigh, Feb 2, 2008
  14. Grantious

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    relatinships are way not easyer when ur straight 4 sure, i totaly agree i just ment its harder to find someone to b with when you are gay you kno?
     
    #14 Grantious, Feb 2, 2008
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    Gay bad or good?
    yay __________________________ nay
    it's who i am__________________________people hate it
    makes me different____________________makes me outcast
    don't like boobs______________________if i were straight i would like boobs
    makes me happy_____________________also depressed, anxious, fearful
    i like to be gay______________________ nasty stereotype i do not follow
    makes me tolerant___________________ life wold be easier
    _________________________________ i would be closer to dad
    __________________________________ i can have MY own kids
    __________________________________ i would have had many GFs
    ___________________________________normal life
    _________________________________nothing to worry about (sexually)
    _______________________________ wouldn't have to come out if straight
    _______________________________i might like football if straight
    ______________________________a wedding that would not be condemned
    ___________________________would not feel so weird around straight men

    I guess i could go on with nay, but no matter how long the nay list is, the yay list probably always will outweigh it.
     
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    Sometimes it's quite comforting. Makes me different, somewhat. It seems an odd reason, but it's a right one.
     
    #16 Jeimuzu, Feb 2, 2008
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    Took the words right out of my mouth dude.
     
    #17 STK, Feb 2, 2008
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    Defo yes....I like who I am..
     
    #18 Bromptonrocks, Feb 2, 2008
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    Hihi! We should hang out some time...so you can show me who those guys are....:lol:
     
    #19 lodiug, Feb 2, 2008
  20. Psychedelic Bookmarks

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    i said no... if i were straight, it would be much simpler :frowning2: on the other hand, i wouldn't change myself, because the only way to be happy is to be yourself. i just wish that i was not gay in the first place. if that makes sense :wink:
     
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