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What is your dream person?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PowerGuyG4, Oct 6, 2012.

  1. PowerGuyG4

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    I am not sure if this is the wrong place to be posting this thread, but I'm pretty sure it isn't.

    In a guy, for me it's:
    He's handsome
    He's sweet, kind and caring
    He's sensitive
    He is into computers
    Not really interested in sex
    Is not concerned about my appearance

    In a girl, for me it's:
    She's pretty
    She's not a b***** or a sl*t.
    She's intelligent and smart
    Easy going
    Doesn't want me to buy her everything she sees
    Is not vain

    Who's your dream person, guy, girl, or both?
     
  2. Andrew91

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    In a guy:
    around my height (5'9")
    brown hair
    brown or hazel eyes
    likes video games
    understanding and cool about things, funny, sense of humor

    In a girl:
    about 5'1"-5'6"
    brown or blonde hair
    easy to get along with, funny, sense of humor
     
  3. Jared

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    He's 3-5 inches shorter than me, so 5'10" to 6'0"
    Dirty blonde or brown hair
    Deep blue eyes
    Slightly toned, I don't like big muscles
    Likes nerdy things (ie computers, video games, Star Wars etc.)
    Funny and easy to talk to
    Kind and caring
    Must like cats
    Doesn't care about my physical flaws
    Likes to cuddle
     
  4. Spirit

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    Fantastic Ginger hair
    Hilarious
    Deals with weirdness
    Good dancer
    Sci-fi fan (Esp- Dr. Who, Torchwood, Star Wars...)
    Snuggley
    A little shorter than me
    Able to ignore/deal with Nay-sayers
     
  5. GlindaRose

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    For a girl: Dark red/crimson hair. As in, Famke Janssen as Jean Grey in X2 and 3. I have a weakness for that shade of hair. Also, she would have to have depth of character, be secure in herself, honest, respectful, and not too clingy.

    For a guy: I prefer dark hair, but wouldn't rule out blonde. He would have to be a gentleman, have depth of character, understand things beyond the surface and not pressure me to get too physical too quickly.
     
  6. Caudex

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    Holy frackfarts you're tall!

    For me, I guess I'd have to say that looks don't matter all that much. I guess since my visage is so disturbingly naturally disfigured as to cause instant petrification in my enemies, I would feel like I'm out of my league with someone good looking. I want someone who has descended to the depth of madness I have, by which I mean the madness that causes me to pursue science and even make jokes about it. (The contour integral of France is zero, all the poles are in Poland!) Let's assume I meet everyone in the U.S., which is a lot of people, and won't happen, but whatever. Assume that 1% are gay males. Then we have 5% in a good age range. That equals 150000 people. Now, let's be honest here, only about 1 in 15000 are so utterly insane as to willingly spend time with me, and we have 1 of 100 being math and science nerds. So that gives me a 10% chance of finding my special someone. Yay!
     
  7. Brooding Chick

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    Hmm, let's see... I would like it if she wasn't too terribly tall(I'm only 5'5" and a 1/2) other wise appearance is not a big deal for me. I want to be able to hold an engaging conversation with her. Has to like traveling. I want to see other countries and discover new places with her. I want her to be honest and straight up with me even if it will hurt. She has some sort of twisted sense of humor. She definitely has to have a dream of where she wants to go in life. Add in a scoop of goofiness and a dash of spontaneous for wild trips into town and I would have the basics. The rest can be a surprise.
     
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    Bit taller than me
    Older (by older I mean a day older and I'd be happy)
    Dark hair-preferably black. Short with some product in it
    Protective
    Fairly masculine
    Funny
    Outgoing
    Cool (like just having pure admiration for him)
     
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    i want a guy

    Whos hair is appox 3 inches high no shorter or longer
    His eyes perfectly center
    Oval shape eyes
    Blue eyes with black in the middle
    Brown hair
    Cut finger nails no dirt inside them
    Fingers has to be even in size
    Right Handed
     
  10. IanGallagher

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    I fly as much as Superman
    A guy who's cute, handsome, has an amazing personality, and great smile. Someone I can go to to feel supported. Looking for the knight.

    Girls someone who is amazingly beautiful, calms the 'animal' in me, makes me feel high and on top of the world, and I can go to whenever I need to and be there to be her knight.

    Who will I end up with? Well, my dream husband or wife is someone who acknowledges that I am bisexual, is okay with it, and will let me possibly start a polyamorous relationship by bringing the other gender into the mix. Not all bis are polyamorous, I just naturally am - once I secure a girl, I think about guys and vice-versa. It'd just be really nice to have that... balanced.
     
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    I've said it before, and I'll say it again:

    My dream man is any man with a pulse who laughs at my jokes and likes my cooking. If an ideal candidate, he'd also be great at fixing things. On the physical side I don't have any preference, but guys with dark eyes and strong features always catch my eye.

    In any case, so long as he likes me, he's perfect. And I'll probably dream of him at some point. :slight_smile:
     
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    My dream guy is one who is sweet, laughs at all my jokes, and hugs me a lot. That's all I really ask for. :icon_sad:
     
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    He is any amounts of taller than me.( I'm not that tall :grin:).
    He has Dark hair/Brown Eyes.
    Doesnt have to be 'ripped', but at least bigger then me. (Again, I'm not big at all :grin:)
    Ethnicity is irrelevent.
    At least average inteligence. (We can use my brains if things get serious ^-^)

    Other then that there is just the biggest one. I am a very outgoing/comical/witty person, and I need that type of person that I just click with. Me and my past love still to this day will just banter back and forth all day and it is some of the most fun I have ever had with friends. We both make fun of each others 'weirdness'. I'd make fun of his blonde moments and he makes fun of my secret obsessive/phobic personality. So I would say the most important quality for me is just because able to have fun.
     
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    My dream girl would have red hair, a curvy figure, and be slightly taller than me. Personality wise she would be intelligent, caring, romantic, open-minded, willing to engage in the odd bout of PDA, hilarious, and just generally beautiful on the inside.
     
  15. King

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    My dream guy is someone I've known for about one month, and he's impossible to describe using words. He's an experience, more than anything.
     
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    somebody interesting, good-humored, optimistic, unconventional, and adventurous. i'm not too picky about physical traits, but i do love curvy ladies and yeah i kinda like to be the taller one :slight_smile:
     
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    Appearance wise:

    about 5'5 give or take
    Blonde hair
    Blue eyes
    Either skinny or chubby, I am not much for muscle

    Personality:

    A smart guy
    Someone who is easy to talk to
    A somewhat nerdy personality
    Won't care about my faults
    An animal lover
    Likes to be cuddle
    Likes to spend time with me, even if we are doing nothing :slight_smile:
     
  18. 1.) Preferably taller than me.
    2.) Bearish; whether it be a little muscular or overweight.
    3.) Loves anime, video games and horror films; but also has his own interests.
    4.) Preferably masculine-ish.
    5.) Speaks a second language.
    6.) Is open to most things in bed. Not EVERYTHING, but most things.
    7.) Is funny and makes jokes, but knows when to stop.
    8.) Not really into the gay scene/clubs.
    9.) Not an alcoholic.

    Wow I'm picky.
     
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    My dream person would :
    > Be a little taller than me
    * Must like video games, especially retro nintendo games.
    * Have a kind personality, he should think in other people and himself
    > Be funny and make jokes and he should know when to be serious too
    * Be avarage looking. Someone I could be attracted to.
    > Like movies
    > Like to try new things, because I don't try new things myself, but I would if more invited me.
    * Be gay or bisexual

    The most important ones are marked with *

    I've met some people with most of these characteristics, but they were straight :eusa_doh:
    One of them is like my best friend, and the other was my best friend in the past, now we are just normal friends.
     
  20. TearDropFairy91

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    In a girl:
    .Has my likes/geeky
    .usually I imagine a girl who is Italian for some reason
    .Someone who is futchy or girly
    Really I could care less what the girl looks like, if she is beautiful, cute, etc. that's just extra. I'm not asking much in a girl if I connect with her and like her that is great :slight_smile:

    In a guy:
    Geeky/Has my likes
    European/exotic
    Someone not too tall
    Someone who can make laugh
    Someone who is real unique
    Having a boy who has musical talent or some talent/smart doesn't hurt
    All in all I don't wanna be seen as a sexual object, a guy who i can really connect with who can be like a best friend and is almost always there is that so hard to ask? :icon_redf