1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Cuddling!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by myheartincheck, Oct 13, 2012.

?

Do you like to cuddle/spoon?

Poll closed Oct 23, 2012.

  1. Sure! It makes me feel warm and fuzzy. ~^_^~

    81 vote(s)
    70.4%

  2. It's ok... with certain people anyway... *daydreams about crush/lover*

    30 vote(s)
    26.1%

  3. Um no. I prefer my own space to allow thrashing room when I sleep.

    4 vote(s)
    3.5%
Thread Tools

Thread Tools

Page 1 of 6
  1. myheartincheck

    myheartincheck
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 25, 2012
    Messages:
    2,461
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    The Golden State with a Golden Gate
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Soooo I was never the cuddliest person in the world but I've noticed that at night I like to be "cuddle buddies" with my closest friends (Admittedly I have had a crush on the close friends I wanted to cuddle lol).

    I wanted to ask if anyone else also likes to cuddle, or only like cuddling with certain people, or not at all. :slight_smile:

    Also, when I first cuddled up to my bestie I was turned on by it even though I never knew cuddling/spooning could have that effect on me before. Is that normal as well? ^_^' *is feeling embarrassed*
     
    #1 myheartincheck, Oct 13, 2012
  2. BlackPhoenix135

    BlackPhoenix135
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Oct 13, 2012
    Messages:
    11
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Massachusetts
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    I love cuddling! Though I usually don't like doing it with anyone besides a significant other or a very close friend... I just feel like I'm invading a personal bubble otherwise, heh. Some of my friends aren't too huge on physical contact anyway, so there's that.

    But I love it. It turns me on too, especially spooning. I guess I just love the physical closeness in general. :slight_smile: Seems totally normal to me.
     
    #2 BlackPhoenix135, Oct 13, 2012
  3. myheartincheck

    myheartincheck
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 25, 2012
    Messages:
    2,461
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    The Golden State with a Golden Gate
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Some people
    It excites you too? *is glad she isnt the only one* I swear when I cuddled up to her I had no idea it would arouse me xD (wonder if she noticed) I kept doing it more later anyways though lol :slight_smile:
     
    #3 myheartincheck, Oct 13, 2012
  4. LightningRider

    LightningRider
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Oct 7, 2012
    Messages:
    160
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Australia
    It appears as though everyone is a cuddler at least a little :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #4 LightningRider, Oct 13, 2012
  5. Pret Allez

    Pret Allez
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 19, 2012
    Messages:
    6,785
    Likes Received:
    67
    Location:
    Seattle, WA
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Yes, cuddling is wonderful. Thank you for making this thread! :kiss:
     
    #5 Pret Allez, Oct 13, 2012
  6. Fugs

    Fugs
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 5, 2011
    Messages:
    1,614
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    United States
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I'm huge on cuddling, it's more of a mandatory thing for me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #6 Fugs, Oct 13, 2012
  7. Retrospect

    Retrospect
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 14, 2012
    Messages:
    76
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    GA, USA
    I love cuddling! My future husband has to enjoy cuddling, or it will not work. :grin:
     
    #7 Retrospect, Oct 13, 2012
  8. bubblyhappy

    bubblyhappy Guest

    I used to cuddle with my boyfriend. After we broke up, I was single again and had no one to cuddle. I usually just cuddle with a blankie and my teddy before I go to sleep.
    Cuddling is warmth and comfort for me.
     
    #8 bubblyhappy, Oct 13, 2012
  9. myheartincheck

    myheartincheck
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 25, 2012
    Messages:
    2,461
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    The Golden State with a Golden Gate
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I agree! Something about a warm body beside me in the dark that's comforting... or stuffed creature if necessary... no matter how creepy I made that sound. xD

    Haha You're so welcome! :grin: Someone had to and I thought "ME! ME!" :thumbsup:
     
    #9 myheartincheck, Oct 13, 2012
  10. Jinkies

    Jinkies
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Oct 27, 2011
    Messages:
    2,321
    Likes Received:
    47
    Location:
    Northern Ireland
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I've honestly never done it... except for when I was VERY little, and that was only with family members.. But I remember actually liking it, and I kinda miss doing that..
     
    #10 Jinkies, Oct 13, 2012
  11. metoo

    metoo
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Sep 27, 2012
    Messages:
    169
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    New Mexico
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    I have never cuddled before, but I really want too. It seems like it would be very fun, and cozy. I really like to be physical, but I try to restrain myself out in public.
     
    #11 metoo, Oct 13, 2012
  12. TheLovelyAudrey

    TheLovelyAudrey Guest

    *gives out free cuddles* (&&&)
     
    #12 TheLovelyAudrey, Oct 13, 2012
  13. myheartincheck

    myheartincheck
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 25, 2012
    Messages:
    2,461
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    The Golden State with a Golden Gate
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I know how that feels... :dry: I never tell my friends about my orientation but I never talk about guys either, so I think they picked up on it and may feel weird if I was physically affectionate with them... but I just have so much love to give... *pouts*

    YAY!!! FREE CUDDLES FOR ALL! :kiss:
     
    #13 myheartincheck, Oct 13, 2012
  14. bubblyhappy

    bubblyhappy Guest

    If you like to cuddle that means your cute. Its what cute people do.
    We love that innocent feeling when we stay close to someone physically.
     
    #14 bubblyhappy, Oct 13, 2012
  15. Cascade

    Cascade
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2012
    Messages:
    377
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Saskatchewan
    I... don't know. I've never been a fan of people getting in my personal space but if it were a certain person I don't know if that would change.
     
    #15 Cascade, Oct 13, 2012
  16. Austin

    Austin
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 5, 2008
    Messages:
    3,172
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Los Angeles, CA
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I like cuddling most of the time! But, maybe because I haven't gotten used to it, I prefer my own space when I sleep.
     
    #16 Austin, Oct 13, 2012
  17. myheartincheck

    myheartincheck
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 25, 2012
    Messages:
    2,461
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    The Golden State with a Golden Gate
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Some people
    You're right... I should've had a fourth option on the poll that says "Don't know... never tried it." :eusa_doh:
     
    #17 myheartincheck, Oct 13, 2012
  18. Owen

    Owen
    In Loving Memory Full Member

    Joined:
    Jul 20, 2007
    Messages:
    613
    Likes Received:
    13
    Location:
    Massachusetts, USA
    I tend to be really fidgety at night when I'm trying to fall asleep, but I love cuddling when I'm awake! Or when the guy and I are lying in bed together after waking up, not really sleeping, just enjoying being still. But yeah, cuddling is great!
     
    #18 Owen, Oct 13, 2012
  19. TheEdend

    TheEdend Guest

    This.

    I love to cuddle and I actually enjoy cuddling while I'm falling asleep, but once I'm asleep I need my own space. I like touching feet or butts, but full on cuddle gets annoying since I get hot really easily at night.
     
    #19 TheEdend, Oct 13, 2012
  20. jaysuss

    jaysuss
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Oct 10, 2012
    Messages:
    243
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Utah
    I've always liked to cuddle with people and even if there of the opposite sex. I would much rather have them be a boy but you can only take what you get.
     
    #20 jaysuss, Oct 13, 2012
(You must log in or sign up to post here.)
Page 1 of 6