I think being cutesy is one of my plus traits. I want to upgrade this trait I have in full HD. Can you give me any tips on how to act more cute, not just in dating, but in everyday life, home or work, etc. just to be more happier and satisfied in life.
Always smile and always be emotive. cuteness, I think, has a lot to do with wearing your positive emotions on your sleeve. Having a good nature and being fun and lively all contribute. If you're going more bubbly, always have a laugh ready. It's all about how people perceive your attitude
Thanks guys this is great. How about if I'm feeling stressed, anxious, fearful, angry. How easy is it to go back to that cute state of mind? Seems like work or should I just throw them out the window and just act bubbly happy as my name bears symbol to.
It's a bit of a philosophical shift, but I say realise that nothing is worth worrying about. Make light of as much as you appropriately can, be warm, be friendly, and Pat's right, flirt plenty!
I think if you try to be a person who is always happy to see everyone, you will become more bubbly even when you feel down. If you think of everybody as a long-lost friend, maybe it will be easier to smile warmly without forcing yourself.
Be yourself. Seriously, I'm not really sure what you mean by "cute state of mind," but I would advise against trying to act cute. Either you're cute or you're not, it should be authentic. If it's not, people will be able to tell, and most people will be turned off by it, and I'm not talking about just sexually. The cutest people I've met are often unaware of the fact that they are cute, because it comes naturally.
I'd like to think I'm cute and its due to my nice to everyone nature, my femininity and how I act so much younger than my real age (not in an immature way but I don't act like I'm 20) as well as being so naive and innocent. I think if you do apply to the cliche of being yourself (I'm insecure and slightly self-loathing but I don't hide who I am-other than not being out lol)
I do have a problem with the word "act" though. Either you are, or you are not and "act" that way. I hope (selfish on my part) you are not "acting".
i agree. deliberately trying to be cute usually backfires and is both irritating and a turnoff, because it's usually patently obvious. just be yourself.
I'd have to agree with everyone saying not to "act" cute. If you're genuinely cute, then cool, but don't force it, it's not attractive. You can act all you want, but there will be times when you can't keep it up. Besides, I would think being cute and "bubbly" all the time would just get annoying, and it can be a lot of work to act cheerful when you really feel the complete opposite. I've tried hiding when I feel sad or angry, and it just sucks. Just be yourself. If you're wanting to be more positive, then go with that, but acting like someone you're not for the benefit of someone else is never a good idea.