Interesting. I've never really gave much thought to this with gay men. Honestly, I hear women bicker about it, but seeing as though I don't bottom very often (twice) I have no idea if the size affected the experience positively or negatively. Just kind of curious as to what others think on the subject. Oh, also.. if he's not aesthetically pleasing to you down there, is it a turn off?
As a bottom, primarily, I would say yes it matters, and I'd rather smaller than bigger. Anything too big would just be agony.
Maybe that's what it was, the second time I did it, I think he was bigger than the other guy. I kind of chalked it up to position.. but that could be it because the second time was basically a no-go lol. It doesn't even count really lol.
I agree. It does matter when it comes to big dicks. I'd prefer smaller as well. You don't need a big 9" penis in order to feel pleased and satisfied. Personally a 5"-7" is plenty. But if we're already naked and about to get "down & dirty" the size of his member isn't very important at that point since I'm clearly into him and down for whatever he has to offer.
I would lie if I said that size didn't matter at all, but I can overlook it if the guy doesn't let the size affect his attitude or self-esteem. Twice now I have encountered guys that allow the size to just make it way too awkward to have fun. One guy I had to convince that it didn't matter for him to actually put his pants down (I don't even know why I didn't just walk out xD) and the other kept bring "the issue" up over and over again. Sexy, I know.
I just want whatever i can get. Its not the size that matters as long sd he puts all.his effort into it. I think im.prepared for either.
I personally like an average size as well. I'm sorry but big can not only be too cumbersome, but can look unattractive.
I just kind of prefer it to be about the same size as mine so we're equal in that. I don't have much experience but I don't think it matters. Not in the 'the bigger the better' way. Which reminds me, do taller people have bigger penises or is that just a misconception? I mean it's what they say, but my ex was much taller than I was and we were about even in size, which surprised me actually because of his height. I had expected it to be bigger but it wasn't a turn off of any kind.
I think personality matters, and if your size obsessed it says something about you. Plus when it's XL it's harder to fit into your mo.... Into places
