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Was your first kiss with the same sex or opposite?

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  1. mes1995

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    Was your first kiss with someone of the same sex or opposite sex? & did you like it?
     
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    Same. And oh yes lol.
     
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    Mine was with the opposite sex and I didn't really care. I kind of just kiss anyone that wants to.
     
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    Opposite sex when I was about 11. And kissed many more of the opposite sex over the years whilst hiding my sexuality. Kissed a gay for the only time earlier this year. This was by far my favourite kiss :slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 18th Oct 2012 at 06:32 PM ----------

    That was supposed to say guy, although I'm pretty sure he was also gay haha
     
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    We're talking about like, romantic kiss, right? Not just a quick peck?

    If that's the case, then I've gotta say opposite sex. Like closet88, I've kissed plenty more people of the opposite sex than of the same sex (probably a 2:1 ratio). I definitely enjoyed it at the time. I kissed a girl for the first time probably 4 or 5 years ago (my friends and I used to make out at random), but it wasn't anything romantic til a little over year ago.
     
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    My first kiss was with a guy. I didn't really like it because I didn't really like the guy. He doesn't count.

    My second kiss was also with a guy, and I did like it. Would do again.
     
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    My first "unofficial" kiss was with a girl. I immediately went home and cried my eyes out. I'm not entirely sure why - if it was because I didn't like her, or I knew I didn't want it, or because I did it while we were rushing so it was awkward altogether.

    For all intents and purposes, I don't count it as a real kiss and have yet to have my first kiss. Apparently some lesbian and gay people "felt right" kissing the same sex, so it should be a good experience.
     
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    Opposite.

    It was weird, and I felt gross for days after.
     
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    Opposite. I actually did like the girl too and thought I loved her at the time - obviously not real love, but I felt something.
     
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    a girl in the 3rd grade dragging me behind a tree on the playground, kissing me with tongue, then offering to let me see her underpants...

    never... again!
     
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    My first kiss was with the opposite sex, and I didn't really expect it. I've only gone out with guys and kissed them because it was "the right thing to do." I wanted to be a normal high schooler.

    Honestly, I didn't feel disgusted by it... well except making out. The other kisses were just like kissing a wall. No appeal or distaste, it just kinda... was a kiss.

    I've never actually fooled around/kissed/dated the same sex, but I want to so badly... :tears:
     
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    Opposite, I was a kid and we got dared to do it, it wasn't very exciting. Sadly I have never kissed a guy. :icon_sad:
     
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    My first kiss was with the opposite sex and it was terrible! Not because it was a girl, but because I just had no idea what to do, and the whole experience was just yuck. Once I got the hang of it I kissed quite a few girls and loved it.

    Earlier this year was my first kiss with a guy, and that was like..:jawdrop: Such an eye opening experience haha. It was definitely waaayy better than with a girl, I was seriously shocked.
     
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    We're lonely people!!! :tears: *cries on your shoulder*
     
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    Thanks, lets be sad together (*hug*)
     
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    Same, and it was could be described as fairly nasty.

    Helped a lot. not.
     
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    *sniffle* Ok... ,:') (*hug*)
     
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    Aww! I'm sorry that experience was so negative for you. :frowning2:
     
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    Is there room for one more :tears:.


    Fine, I admit I have yet to have my first kiss. *Dramatic Audience Gasp*. BUT it is solely because of my own decisions. I never kissed a girl because I never had the curiousity or desire to, nor did I have I ever went out of my way to hide my sexuality. I have had offers from a few guys, but honestly wasnt feeling it, and am not in a desperate position to just get anything 'over with' at this point.
     
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    I'm joining this circle of people as well...:tears: