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Are we allowed to talk about bondage...? O_O

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by myheartincheck, Oct 18, 2012.

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Do you like bondage?

  1. Wait... you can have sex without bondage...?

    13 vote(s)
    13.7%

  2. I try to keep an open mind...

    42 vote(s)
    44.2%

  3. Um no thank you... -__-

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    21.1%

  4. I'm not sure... never tried it/I'm apathetic about it.

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  1. myheartincheck

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    Haha so I just wanted to get a general idea of how many people are into bondage or how many think it's too crazy for them. :grin: So yay or nay?
     
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    Voted for 'I try to keep an open mind'.

    I think its pretty kinky but haven't tried it yet :icon_redf
     
    #2 Lad123, Oct 18, 2012
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    So let me get this straight... there IS sex without bondage? I'm very confused.

    Edit: My 777th post :3
     
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  4. myheartincheck

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    Haha I heard they're coming out with a 50 Shades of Grey movie so I was inspired to post this. :icon_bigg

    ---------- Post added 18th Oct 2012 at 03:31 PM ----------
    Teehee not GOOD sex xD
     
    #4 myheartincheck, Oct 18, 2012
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    Voted for "I try to keep an open mind" as well.

    Usually when I think "bondage" I think crazy people in leather tying other people up to the point where they can't move anymore at all. No, thanks.

    But, just some light tying up is hot! Add blind folding and it's perfect!

    So yeah, I'm open to a lot of things, but I don't get too crazy.
     
    #5 justinf, Oct 18, 2012
  6. King

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    Never...
     
    #6 King, Oct 18, 2012
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    Exactly.

    Not to mention, real bondage just seems like it would be a lot of work :grin:. Just a little can be fun though.
     
    #7 Gen, Oct 18, 2012
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    I completely agree. Mild bondage is ok, but the leather/vinyl attire, scary masks, typing up, pain-induced stuff, no way.
     
    #8 Lance, Oct 18, 2012
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    Is it bad that my first thought was "What's bondage?" :lol:
     
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    o_o
     
    #10 myheartincheck, Oct 18, 2012
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    Not my cup of tea... And I think leather belongs outside of sex, like in a leather jacket. :grin:


    I'd prefer having fully naked (but very kinky) fun when it comes to sex, without leather, chains, or any other artificial contraptions.

    It is possible to be kinky without using that stuff, or resorting to bondage necessarily.
     
    #11 jsmurf, Oct 18, 2012
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    Not sure, but if it is, we're bad together :grin:
     
    #12 rg93, Oct 18, 2012
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    I haven't tried it yet, and I would only do it with a partner I trusted a great deal; not as a casual encounter.

    I am rather odd. I have fantasies about sex where I am unable to escape, but I don't want my partner to hurt me. The idea of restraint rather excites me, but I don't want my partner to swear at me or do degrading talk, especially like they do so often in porn. (Although I notice it less often in gay and lesbian porn, but that's another discussion.)

    The idea of tying anyone else up doesn't excite me though.
     
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    Extremely into bondage, from light ropes to heavy rubber/leather! My date is too. :grin:

    I'm kind of into almost everything, so yeah. Describe me as a real sex enthusiast.
     
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    From all my years of pr0n, I have fantasies of bondage and I am a virgin.
     
    #15 Ticklish Fish, Oct 18, 2012
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    A simple pair of cuffs can go a loooong way. :lol:

    Getting tied up/blindfolded is about my limit. I'm a wuss when it comes to the whips and what have you.
     
    #16 spirithawk, Oct 18, 2012
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    I seem to be the only one who thinks it doesn't seem fun and that it seems really creepy too.
    You're being TIED UP. That should be a source of alarm to most people. And it also seems disturbingly rapey.
     
    #17 Caudex, Oct 18, 2012
  18. Lance

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    It's not alarming or "rapey" if both people are consenting and it's with someone you love and trust.

    Now the scary BDSM dungeons and clubs are a different story.. :grin:
     
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    I don't really have any experience with it but it seems like something I'd be pretty hit or miss with. I think it would be fun to try, but its not really something I'm into per se.
     
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    No thanks
     
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