Okay. Question. What would you call a guy that considers himself to be bisexual, but will admit that he can't or doesn't think he can fall in love with a guy.
Heteroromantic bisexual. A bisexual person who is only romantically attracted to someone of the opposite sex.
<~~~ my orientation xD my exact feelings as well, although I have met a few guys that I actually could fall in love with.
Well many LGBT individuals dont believe that they could fall in love with the same sex for a while after they have admitted their orientation to themselves. Honestly, the majority of the time it is more that they are afraid of being in a same sex relationship. It would be easier to not have any emotional connections with the same sex, to insure that they will still have to 'model life' and can leave their other attractions in the dark, so-to-speak. Though it could be that he legitimately has an only sexual attraction for men. He also added that he "doesnt think", which leads me more to the direction that he probably could, but doesnt know that he wants to. I would take it with a grain of salt. It doesnt mean that his opinions cannot drastically change in the future, as many do. However, if you were in a relationship with this guy and he says that after a while or few weeks, then that might be an issue lol.
It sounds to me like you're describing a heteroromantic bisexual. There's romantic orientation, too, not just sexual orientation. You can see the asexuality wiki for more information on romantic orientations. I'd pretty much describe myself the opposite way you described him. And to give you sense of maybe where he's at; it's probably like he wants to have sex with guys on occasion, but doesn't really want to have a relationship. Like chemistry with men never really goes beyond friendship with him. That profound connection just never occurs. It's rather odd, but there it is. Or as Gen said, he might just need to explore his own feelings more.
I'm bi. I consider guys to be hot, excited to possibly dance with a guy and might find a bf. BUT on the same hand, I fall romantically in love with girls faster. I fell in love with one guy, completely, but I haven't fallen for a guy like that since and it was a couple of years ago. So, while it might happen - I just romantically fall for girls faster. It's late, kind of tired, unsure if that makes sense...
sounds exactly like me. I don't know if i could love a man in the same way i know i can love a woman. I have never had romantic feelings for a man before, but unlike your friend i am not ruling it out, it COULD happen, but it would be an exception. I crush on the ladies but like peen and vajajay both.
Bisexaul, X-romantic. Where X is/are the people he can fall in love with. ---------- Post added 30th Oct 2012 at 09:07 AM ---------- Makes perfect sense. Same here.
From what I'm reading I'm in the same boat as the first person I've slept with a couple and enjoyed it but, I have a wife and kids and so on....
Interesting. Well he has a gf on top of this, I'm not going to mess around with him because i'm pretty sure she doesn't know. lol.
made me bust out laughing in class. As for op I'm not forsure I was that way for in highschool but now I think I could (maybe he just hasn't saw a m/m relationship that he sees that he wants ) however Idk lol
My best friend is kind of like this. He says he likes guys, but when he talks about marrying someone, he always says it's going to be a woman. I honestly can't see him marrying a guy or being in a long term relationship with one. He likes women too much
I agree with most people here. I firmly believe that human sexuality is not black and white but rather a huge continuum. I used to think that but came to realize I'm picky about guys and have yet to meet a cute boy to fall in love with. I know I could fall in love with a guy if he's my type but its new territory so it ain't easy. Maybe he needs time, maybe not. Only he can tell you.
