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Confessions of a homosexual.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Skuxx, Nov 17, 2012.

  1. Skuxx

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    For me, the hardest thing about being gay is when you fall so in love with a guy, knowing he's straight and it'll never happen. This pain is enough for me to wish that there was a cure for homosexuality.

    What other complications or problems come with being a homosexual?
     
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    Nah, I wish there was a cure for heterosexuality. (I Want That Boy)
     
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    People judging you, parents hating you

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    Homosexual just sounds so mean to me I'd rather be called gay
     
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    are you kidding? the other way around, please
     
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    Really? I guess it depends on the way you use it and how you say it. It sounds so, so scientific like Homo Erectus
     
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    I am almost always attracted to straight guys. Since I would never be able to have a same-sex relationship where I currently live, (rural area of a southern state), whether they're straight or gay dosen't matter to me, since it would go no further than daydreaming anyways. :cry:
     
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    Well, it is a scientific word. Homo for same. And sexual for.. Well, that's not hard.
    But yeah, any word can be used as an insult or such if used in the right context.
     
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    It just offends me like queer offends me too and some people prefer it
     
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    Yeah, different things mean different things to others.
     
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    No, what's worse is when you fall for someone who's still in the closet and dating a girl, and has shown you clear signs that he likes you. And, try as you might to get through to that conflicted soul, there's nothing you can do to help him. When you fall in love with someone who is beyond help, then you really feel your heart rip in half and you give up hope of ever finding love.

    Also, when you have a tendency to be attracted to closet-cases and ambiguously-oriented guys. It fucking sucks!
     
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    I seem to attract whores :frowning2: who just want to sex me up... Which really sucks because some of them were hot and I would have loved to have dated them but the bastards (sorry for swearing) only took me out then wanted sex!!! I'm not a slut I'm a virgin and I'm waiting for the right guy who actually wants more then in my pants. :slight_smile: sorry for that still bothers me haha :frowning2:
     
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    Meh, i used to think I just seemed to happen to be attracted to straight guys and not other gay guys. Truth is, there are a lot more straight guys out there then gay guys so statistically I would end up being attracted to guys who ended up being straight rather then gay by virtue of the fact that there were more of them. To me, guys are guys, straight or gay and i am attracted to them.
     
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    That's a sexy way to think of it! I like straight guys I love classy guys but classy who are tough at the same time... Strange mix I know..... I wish all guys liked guys SERIOUSLY!
     
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    I consider myself a good Catholic and the worst part for me (I go to a Jesuit school) is listening to student and some teachers say that it is a sin and I am going to hell. I don't believe them for one second because it's not like I am making the choice to be gay its just...me.
     
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    Ok, how would you fall in love with someone if you completely knew that he is straight? Did you like go on a romantic date, or does he visit you everyday to make sure you're ok? Maybe you are just crushing on him, you know, like crushing on a celebrity. If it is, don't worry about it, it will eventually fade. I used to have a crush on ryan seacrest, but got over it when I finally realize he can never be mind. But of course, in your case it can be different.
     
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    I'm exactly the same. Hate the words queer and homosexual...

    It sounds like a disease.
     
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    Well the guy is my brothers bestfriend. I've known him for a long time now and we're always chillin every week and ive played sports with him throughout hs so we got close real fast. if I were straight I'd look at him as just one of the bros and nothing more. But it's diff.

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    I know how u feel bro. I go to a Christian church and some of the people can be pretty cruel towards homosexuals. And there's been so many times where I just wanted to tell them that being gay isn't a choice. Tht pisses me off everytime I hear someone say it.
     
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    I don't like living in a sexualized society because I feel excluded, I am in the closet. Most people can express themselves in that topic while I can't.
     
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    omg i know that's how i feel!!!!!!!
     
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    I think the worst part is seeing the person you are in love with who knows you are gay, and can probably pick up on you being into him, talk about other girls and mention how hot they are..

    It's not his fault.

    Still hurts though.