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I want a gay bestfriend!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Monmon, Nov 21, 2012.

  1. Monmon

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    Lol, I know this is not the site to look for him, but wouldn't it be nice to have one? I never had a gay bestfriend before, because most of my friends are straight guys or girls. I don't even have much gay friends. I did have gay friends but online. I want a gay best friend who I can do my hair with, like we're back in high school. Be my shopping buddy and give me fashion advice, or I give fashion advice to. We would talk on the phone for hours and he would listen to what I say. He would also sing me a One Direction song if I'm feeling depressed. Can you share your experiences with your gay bestie and make me jealous? :kiss:
     
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  2. rday13

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    Do you want a sassy gay friend instead :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: ?
    SASSY GAY FRIEND - Hamlet - YouTube
    SASSY GAY FRIEND - Eve - YouTube

    Just thought it was kinda funny.

    Not gonna lie, gay best friends can be nice. I did have one for about half of college and....well I guess I never went to get my hair done, but he loved giving fashion advice and talking about pop culture. Only..we grew apart after he was persistent about sleeping with me and I wasn't so into that. >_< Boundaries are superrr-important, as I learned.
    I still have other gay friends tho, just not a gay best friend :slight_smile: but they can be fun!
     
  3. Monmon

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    Dude, that's super gross, I think that is a boyfriend's job, not bestfriend's.

    Lol at the Eve video. Is he really naked? What's up with the orange scarf? He already worn it in the Hamlet video.
     
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    I love love LOVE sassy gay friend! The Romeo and Juliet one is hilarious too!
     
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    I want a gay best friend toooo! D: I'm friends with a girl whose bi, but we don't get to talk much. :dry:
     
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    Don't worry! We all can be friends! :grin:

    lol, just kidding. I have two best friends, and I don't quite fit the stereotype. The only really "gay" thing I do is recommending my friend to wear this or that. And we also made a deal: I'd help my friend get a girlfriend, and they would help me get a boyfriend. :grin:
     
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    I would settle for just a gay friend :rolle:.
     
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    LOL don't we all want one? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  9. Lewis

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    Haha I personally don't want one, but my friends consider me that. When I came out to my female best friend she was like 'omg I always wanted a gay best friend'. I told her she's going to be highly disappointed!

    My guy best friend once said to me that if make a great gay best friend (before he knew), turns out I was xD
     
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    I'm apparently loads of people's gay best friend, but apparently not gay enough.

    I have bisexual female friend that I'm close with, who said she's 'turning full lesbian soon.' I talk to her about boys and she talks about girls. She is essentially my gay best friend. :slight_smile:
     
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    Haha, when I came out to my bestfriend she said "This is AWESOME, I've always wanted a gay bestfriend...we can go shopping!!" This was also the first person I came out too, so her reaction was great:slight_smile: We just went to Toronto for some shopping today too:grin:
     
  12. aeva

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    Not really. I already have a best friend, and she's a straight girl. All of my other closest friends are straight guys though, and I enjoy being able to check out girls with them, give them girl advice, and have them give me the answers I'm looking for from somebody who's attracted to girls. It's a big bonding point for us, and I'd definitely miss having that. I don't think I'd want a lesbian bff either though. Despite the fact that I love being a woman and love being with women, I don't enjoy the company of most females. Even though I'm quite feminine in appearance, I have more masculine/mixed personality and interests. I just get along with guys better, and it's been that way since my childhood .

    I have quite a few gay/lesbian/bi friends, I'm just not super close to any of them like I am with my straight boys.
     
  13. Alexander69

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    If I had a gay best friend we wouldn't just be "fiends" you know? HAHA
     
  14. Monmon

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    Yes, you wouldn't be just friends, because you would be bffs! duh much?
     
  15. TallButShort

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    I would love to have a gay best friend. We could a lot of stuff together, talk about things and simply do what straight people wont do together. :slight_smile:
     
  16. Alexander69

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    Like I said if I had a gay friend it would end up in bed some how. And when I get a guy he would probs be jealous if the gay bestie