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Question to Every1: Would you care?

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  1. FlameFeather

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    Ok so the question is:
    Would you care if your boyfriend (gay/bi) / girlfriend (gay/bi) was feminine (boy) / masculine (girl)?
    Actually, i would mind (like 55%/100%) and as a bisexual guy i consider myself masculine. I don't have any problems with a feminine boy or masculine girl, i actually respect everyone ^^ So i would like to see ur answers :thumbsup:
     
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  2. BradThePug

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    It wouldn't bother me any.
     
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    Whether they're 'masculine' or 'feminine' doesn't matter to me, so much as their individual personality since I don't have an obvious preference.

    If anything, I'd like someone whose personality is capable of exemplifying a little of both.
     
    #3 Sartoris, Nov 25, 2012
  4. FlameFeather

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    Yap, the personality is the most important thing in a person.
     
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    Well, there is one other 'little' thing, for me, but that comes along later... :lol:
     
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  6. FlameFeather

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    Ahahahaha :roflmao:
     
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    Truthfully, a feminine guy is not the first person I would go for if I had my choice of anyone in the world. But if I met a feminine guy and got to know him and he had a wicked personality, I'd be game for giving it a shot.

    As others have said, personality trumps (nearly) anything.
     
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    I would much rather prefer a gay guy who I'd 40:60 andro to masculine respectively. I could go for a bi guy but with less of a chance of it happening.
     
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    Yeah. Same here.
     
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    It depends. I don't really instantly find feminine guys attrative, but if I got to know someone who was a little feminine, who knows what could happen?

    I do find a a very little bit of femininity attractive in masculine looking guys.
     
    #10 Lewis, Nov 25, 2012
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    Wouldn't care, so long as they meet my intelligence and aesthetic standards.
     
    #11 Pain, Nov 25, 2012
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    I wouldn't care long as he is being faithful to me.

    The masculine verse feminine. I think it's what your attracted to. I like a 90/10 ratio
     
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    I'll also admit that a feminine guy wouldn't be my first choice...but, neither would a feminine girl...I tend to be attracted to masculine qualities...So a masculine girl to me is awesome! So is a masculine guy....but, I wouldn't turn down someone who was more feminine if I really liked them as a person.
     
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    What?
     
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    I largely prefer feminine men and women. I tolerate masculinity somewhat, but I'd never date a masculine guy. I just wouldn't be attracted at all.
     
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    Don't really care in the least.
     
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    Same here but with women. I'm usually not attracted to masculine women but it could happen possibly.
     
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    Yap :slight_smile:
     
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    Wouldn't matter to me in any way, shape, or form.
     
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    I don't think I really care. I'd prefer a guy who isn't an extreme of either end but I wouldn't turn down one or the other. As long as we have a little bit in common and I find him somewhat attractive, I don't think it will change much.
     
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