Gay but don't like dicks

Maybe they're asexual? Asexuals can still develop romantic feelings for people just like everybody else.

 

'He just want to poke'... what?
But yeah, I suppose this kinda applies to me. This could all be too much information but whatever, it's the internet:
I'm gay, as in I'm emotionally and physically attracted to men, but 9 times out of 10 I don't find dicks hugely interesting* and when I think about whether I'm a top or a bottom, my instinct tells me "neither!" I also don't find porn particularly interesting. One thing that I do like is receiving head, and I masturbate just as much as any other guy. However, I guess that puts me fairly far along the asexual spectrum?

I've been in relationships before though, and I've done enough stuff out of relationships too. I certainly like intimacy but my desire/need to go to fourth base meanders between little and non-existent.

*in fact, I've sucked cock before and I really, really disliked it. Not every gay guy wants to do everything, it's just the same as some gay guys not wanting to bottom or vice versa.

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If that's what you mean, then see the end of my above post.

 

Some people simply don't enjoy the sensation of having cock in their mouth? That's all it boils down to.

 

the only kind of oral sex i am into is cunnilingus. I don't like receiving head, and i've never sucked a cock but i don't think i would enjoy it one little bit. I can lick a pussy all night though.

however i very much like all forms of penetrative sex, both receiving and... poking, as you put it =)

 

There's more to sex than just putting it in a hole. There's the foreplay, the snuggling, the the caresses, the frottage, the moans, the dirty talk (if you're in to that)... if someone is having sex and all they're doing is putting it in a hole, they're doing it wrong.

 

I don't know what you're talking about, but they really aren't the same...

That's equivalent to saying an ass = a vagina = a mouth, because they're all holes a dick can fit into.

 

This sounds like something I could've written. I like intimacy but am not so much interested in the sex aspect of a relationship. I have way more of an emotional attraction to guys than it's physical. And if it's physical, I'd be a super-bottom too. The idea of being a top... no. Just no.

The interest in going fourth base with a girl is completely non-existant, so no, a hole isn't just a hole.

 

I'm guessing there's straight girls who don't enjoy it either so maybe it's just one of those things you enjoy or you don't.

Also maybe some guys feel it makes them submissive and might not like that if they're the macho types? I dunno. Personally I wouldn't mind at all, if I liked the guy.

 

No, an ass is not just a tighter vagina (really?). It is completely different. It looks different, feels different, and requires a completely different way of treating it when you're having sex.
I guess this might be your inexperience speaking, but they are no where near the same.

Well how about there's a certain person attached to each hole? And if you're not attracted to that person, because you're gay so you're not attracted to women, then how is that gonna be good sex? Sex is not about putting it in a hole it's about having a great experience with someone you love and are attracted to, together. If it's just about the hole then why not just get an inflatable doll and stick it in there? After all, a hole is a hole.

I think if this is really the way you view sex, you should wait a couple more years before having it.

 

I'm bi and into getting but not giving to either gender. Just saying there's probably guys who don't like to eat pussy as well.

 

god forbid ppl don't enjoy giving blowjobs

 

alot of people dont like sucking dick. firstly, it is one of the easier ways to spread certain STD's, secondly, what is the sucker suposed to get out of it, and thirdly, why do you want to fight your gag reflex?