1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Sometimes, I confuse myself...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by HalfInsane, Dec 6, 2012.

  1. HalfInsane

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Mar 3, 2008
    Messages:
    306
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    BC, Canada
    So, I'm not attracted to men. Never have been (I won't say never will be; life is a crazy, unpredictable thing... but to date, it has not happened).

    And yet, I find guys making out a HUGE turn on *cough, Brokeback Mountain, cough*. Anything more than that, no... sorry fellas.

    Sometimes, I just don't know what goes on in the depths of my mind lol! But c'mon... makes no sense, right? Right? Oh well, I stopped trying to understand myself long ago :rolle:
     
  2. Delta

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jul 3, 2012
    Messages:
    473
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Northwestern USA
    I don't know why either, but I know it's the same for me, and a lot of gay women. Soooo... Yeah.
     
  3. Caudex

    Caudex Guest

    Maybe you just find people getting down to business beautiful?…
     
  4. BoiGeorge

    BoiGeorge Guest

    Oh my god! Same here!! :O I get so horny watching 2 guys make out! With 2 girls its like 'er' but I love watching the guys make out lol! :grin:
     
  5. its common apparently although doesnt apply to me XD
     
  6. BoiGeorge

    BoiGeorge Guest

    Hm... I wonder why a lot of us lesbians like it! Its very odd... :grin:
     
  7. Ettina

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Nov 14, 2012
    Messages:
    1,508
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Canada
    Gender:
    Female
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I heard somewhere that straight and gay people are all a tiny bit bi.
     
  8. Greendalehumans

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Oct 10, 2012
    Messages:
    150
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Maryland
    I like it too :slight_smile: I mostly get all romantic and happy, though. Not as turned on. But then when I see a straight couple I'm just like "eh whatever". I don't know why.
     
  9. rday13

    rday13 Guest

    A lot of straight guys get turned on by two girls making out, even though I doubt they have any desire to be a lesbian. Although some would like to get it on with a lesbian, but that's a different story :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Kinda like those straight girls who want to bang a gay guy, it happens but less frequently than anything else.

    It's just something that turns you on. That's an individual thing and it doesn't mean you're necessarily attracted to the gender. Perhaps it's just the act of making out that does it for you?
     
  10. AshenAngel

    AshenAngel Guest

    It is very odd... I wonder why so many of us ladies women( lol xD) like this stuff..... >_<
     
  11. myheartincheck

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 25, 2012
    Messages:
    2,461
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    The Golden State with a Golden Gate
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Some people
    YOU GIRLS LIKE THAT TOO!?! *cough cough* I mean... yes it is rather odd a lot of lesbians like such things...

    (For me personally I think its just because the raw sexuality is practically tangible with two guys whereas when two girls are together it seems faked more... :dry:slight_smile:
     
  12. dreamcatcher

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2011
    Messages:
    845
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    USA
    I hear that straight women also get turned on by lesbian scenes or erotica even though they're straight. i think it has something to do with the way women are wired. Sexuality in women is a bit different so I've heard which explains this phenomena of gay women liking gay men porn.
     
  13. Faden

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Nov 25, 2012
    Messages:
    9
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    San Diego
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Someone once explained to me that she likes watching gay male porn because it depicts a sexual situation wherein no pressure would ever be exerted on her to be part of it. With everything else she winds up comparing her appearance to the women in the video, identifying with the women doing demeaning things for men, feeling like two lesbians kissing are just doing so for an off-camera male audience... two gay men getting down present none of these issues.

    Another woman (gay) said something like, "I just find homosexuality attractive." Whether female-female or man-man.