Gay kid.

Lol I don't know exactly what you mean by that, but I remember in a college course I took over the summer, there was this cute Asian guy, but he was like a junior. So I didn't bother much or anything. He was one of those maybe-he-is-maybe-he-isn't types.

It was iffy. But I don't think you're shallow. Everyone does that, lol. I remember talking him for the first time, and he was into sports and stuff; so I was just like: "No sorry, too hetero for me."

Lmaoo.

 

Omg haha I know exactly how you feel. I'm completely opposite from that kid lol. Don't have that voice that many gay people have and I where nice stuff lol. I like shopping a ton too lol. But ya I guess it is sort of shallow, and i've thought about that before lol. But it doesn't bother me too much if people have that voice. But clothes definately matter for me unless there extremely hot lol.

 

ok. so shallow YES you are shallow (tips glasses down below eye)

however u do have the choice of being picky with whom u wish to be with but as it relates to the friend part ......SHALLOW.:dry: my view, everyone deserves to have a friend no matter what and if i had a friend who was gay and didn't know how to dress or kept bad hygine i would make it my dignity to make sure that they do. (Thats how i made most my friends in high school)

secondly, there is nothing "typical" about being gay. ur gay..ur gay. it's just a sexual preference, not a way of life; or a cult. so ur one of those straight acting guys ehh? tell me, what kind of guys are straight acting men attracted to? i ALWAYS wanted to know :dry:

 

Ok ppreston...lesson numero uno...there is no clean cut sterotypical audrey hepburn loving gay. Like sexyalex said *hugs sexyalex tons*....if your gay...your gay. I'm gay....I dont knit...i dont have a lisp....i dont like audrey hepburn and I certainly dont flounce my wrists popping sevens every few seconds....but I'm gay. A friend of mine is just the opposite...he flounces around more than most girls at our school. the moral of the story is that you can't clasify someone as gay by their '-isms' or their mannerisms. Its just who they are. Shallow...EXTREMELY. No offence or all, and really, plz dont take it the wrong way. You're closeted, so you're 'straight acting'. I HATE HATE HATE thrat phrase...because you make it sound like there are two cookie cutters for men...gay and straight. And there isnt. Straight men are as different as gay men....as unique as the bottom of your shoes, and as variant as the different wavelengths of the color spectrum. You CAN'T judge someone based off of mannerisms. Why you think he's gay....the way he acts/talks/walks? Has he told you he is gay? And he wore a pro-gay shirt.....doesnt mean he's gay. Maybe he's a hetero supporter....its always nice to have those around......

@sexyalex: you ask what straight acting guys like, eh? well since i already disproved the existence of the 'straight acting guy'.....many say that they would not have known I was gay unless I came out....therefore, I guess I'm less attention drawing...and I like body hair....lots of it.....i also like muscles...not chiselled...but shaped. size doenst matter, personality counts. deep eyes and a sensuous voice. Soft touch and a strong cuddle. a guy who has some body hair and some muscles....or one or the other is just fine for me. but my good friend Dave, whom also is less attention drawing likes full out Jocks....or those guys w/ muscles and chisel and abs and hunkiness. then again, he likes tall and braod shouldered too. lol.

So reallyy.....its all variant.....but since there are no 'straight acting guys'....your question is happily void.

 

i dont think its shallow.
and i do know what you mean, i think.
its just a matter of preference.

you get to pick your friends and boyfriends.
and its not like you dont like him BECAUSE he's gay.
youre just not a fan of his personality. and thats okay.
nobody likes everybody.
even if they lie and say they do.
they dont.

its not shallow.

 

I think that it might be a little shallow to not like a person for their lisp (which I have ) But not wanting to be around a person that isn't verry clean is pretty understandable. I hate to smell bad, and I don't like it when other pwople around me smell bad, but try to look past it........most of the time....

 

I definitely don't see not liking some gay guy as being shallow
thats how i am seeing it
Its not like straight guys are shallow for thinking a girl they find annoying not their type
(i had this typed out for a while but forgot to send it heh oh well)

 

I'm not so much concerned with how a person dresses, but I don't really have much attraction to the stereotypical gay guy. Makeup, catty attitudes, tight clothes, high and lispy voices....I don't know, it's just not the kind of person I'm into.

 

Exactly.

 

Hah whose Audrey Hepburn? (I spelled that right, right?)

Yeah I get what you mean, we had a kid like that at my old school he was gay, smelly, highly annoying, and had a really bad gay lisp he just wasn't pleasent to be around ya know, and I def would not go out with him, why settle, but they're we're some gay guys from permian who weren't seriously annoying like him but still were pretty, sorry but gay (the stereotypical gay as played out by Hollywood, I think is what he's tryna say)

Yeah, I have a little lisp if I don't control it but I keep myself clean, unsmelly, and less annoyingly gay haha, your not shallow, its just how I wouldn't hang out with a serious jock because we'd have nothing to talk about

Wow I got a little carried away haha but I think I proved my point

 

Oh my! A new generations of gays that don't know Audrey Hepburn!? The shame! What are they teaching kids these days!?

 

Totally.
It's kinda cool that you feel bad about doing it. I think it means you are good guy

 

^^^Does this mean that we need a new actress to love or whatever?^^^