Hi, everyone! I just joined the thread hoping to get advice. Im sure you all get this all the time. So im sorry in advace heres my story... I have known i am bisexual for years now. I have been in two relationships with women about 8 years ago. but now i am married to a man. we have been on the rocks for a while. i am in school and met this amazing women. I began to question my self ever since i met her. one night we messed around, that was about a month ago and cont. today i finally ended it with her becuase i feel really bad about what i was doing. but i find myself really upset with losing her. she knew i had feelings for her, but she did not feel the same way but i cont being friends with benifits becuase i liked her so much. granted i have known her for about 8 months not just the month we messed around . since i have been messing around with her, i havnt found men attractive at all! i guess my question is, am i gay and not bi anymore. or is it just her and my strong feelings for her? i still find other women attractive. i dont know if id mess around with them right now b/c my feelings for her. OMG i dont know where i am going with this.... i guess maybe i just need to vent. but i am so confused. i told my husband lastnight that i did not want to be with him anymore. and now we have talked and i dont want to hurt him so i stayed. thanks for reading, confused!
