Ok so I'm attracted to my friend and she is bisexual I think she likes me as she is always joking around with me and holding my hand but how do I no this is not just her being friendly. I'm not out to anyone because I'm still finding it hard to deal with atm. How can I tell her with out spoiling our relationship we live far apart from each other so if I was to tell her it would be by a message but I can't stop thinking about her sometimes when we message we talk for hours but again I dont know if this is just friendship...????