Hello I've been crushing on this guy for a while but now I'm finally over it and want to meet some greats guys. I live in new York but I'm not comfortable going out to clubs or anything like that. I also tried online dating but I find it to be very unreal and guys there only real want to just hook up. Any advice?
Any community theater where you live? I've heard drama is sort of a magnet for gays and I can't object, since I like boys and performing arts. Even if you don't have acting/singing talent, you could always help out backstage or something and chat up the cute guys you meet. The only trick will be separating the actual gay ones from those who are flamboyant, yet straight.
Well what sort of activities do you enjoy doing? Perhaps you could find guys who have similar interests via those.