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How Was 2012 For You?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Martin, Dec 25, 2012.

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How was 2012 for you?

  1. 1 - Worst Year Ever

    8.0%
  2. 2

    8.0%
  3. 3

    4.5%
  4. 4

    8.0%
  5. 5 - Average

    9.1%
  6. 6

    10.2%
  7. 7

    15.9%
  8. 8

    20.5%
  9. 9

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  10. 10 - Best Year Ever

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  1. Martin

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    Wassupski peeps,

    As it's that time of year again I thought I'd get this thread posted for its 5th edition! :grin:

    So yeah, like previous years, vote on the poll above and answer the questions below! :wink:

    2008 thread is here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/18762-how-2008-you.html
    2009 thread is here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/30684-how-2009-you.html
    2010 thread is here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/41714-how-2010-you.html
    2011 thread is here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/55456-how-2011-you.html

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
     
  2. onlythebulls13

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    I'm just going to answer your questions in number order. :wink:
    1. Biggest change this year is that I came out to my best friend and feel fucking awesome about it
    2. Went on trips to Wisconsin to go camping...fun!
    3. Didn't have any but this new year will change that, met a guy that might be gay that I plan on seeing this Friday
    4. PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA!
    5. Been listening to slacker radio so there's been a lot
    6. Black keys! Saw them in concert
    7. I made no resolution last year lol
    8. Coming out to my friend.... It was a big moment for me that I'll never forget
    9. Liberals... Growing strong
    10. Yeah, I need to get my life in gear, been in shambles since my old best friend died when we were 20 years old....been three years and I need to get out ta my rutt
    11. Yeah, a lot of self realizations
    12. Never thought I'd be out of the closet to anyone, but look at me now! Lol
    13. I am a certified bartender now, did that in the spring
    14. Being accepted for who I am.... And it feels great!!!!
    15. Had some mushrooms and let me tell you this, you should probably not eat an eighth of them when you have only done it twice before haha
    16. My few but close friends
    17. Right now I'm waiting on some prime rib! Not sure I have any new years plans
    18. My resolution next year is going to be to eat healthier and take better care of myself
    19. I gave it a seven.... Which would be a huge we improvement from the last three years
    20. Yes I'll be on EC around this time next year

    Gave quick answers but at least you got something out of me there lol
    Happy holidays and happy new year!
     
  3. SkyDiver

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year? I stopped believing homosexuality is sinful!

    2. What did you do over the summer? I worked a ton, hung out with a lot of friends and took a few day and weekend trips to the mountains.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends? Non-existent.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012? President Obama supports marriage equality.

    5. Favourite song from the year? Latch - Disclosure

    6. Favourite artist this year? Deadmau5

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them? Nope, and even if I would've, I wouldn't have stuck to them.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)? Coming out to everyone.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)? My friend and mentor, James.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months? How to deal with a crush that doesn't feel the same.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012? Probably the same answer to #1. It was a revolution after years and years of homophobia.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do? Came out to everyone. I remember I wrote in my journal a few years ago that I would never, ever tell a soul.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications? Got an awesome new job!

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year? A youth gathering that I go to every 3 months.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)? I don't even know. Too many to think of.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment? My friends, my family and my God.

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year? Same as usual - presents, big dinners, family time... all of that jazz.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different? Yes. I WILL get in shape!

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)? 8.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year? ABSOLUTELY!
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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    My official decision to leave religion.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Job hunt. :lol:

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Never got into a relationship.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    Probably the school shooting...

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    I Love You by 2NE1

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    EXO-K

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I made one to lose weight until I got to my target weight, and I stick to it and exceeded my expectations. :slight_smile:

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    FINALLY deciding what I'm going to do with my life.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    Both myself and my best friend.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Oh, God, yes.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    Somewhat.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Yes.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    No.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Making some new friends (although they're online) and joining Tumblr. [Wow, I definitely had an uneventful year. xD]

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Probably trying to drive somewhere knowing that there was no gas in my tank...cue car stalling on the road.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My best friend, my new-found life philosophy.

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    No plans.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?
    Not really, but I do want to start living a more open life. I hope I'll be able to tell someone about my gayness next year, haha.

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    3.5.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Most likely! :grin:
     
  5. TheUndiscovered

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    I came out to some family!
    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Nearly nothing. :frowning2:
    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Perpetually single. :astonished:
    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    Definitely the election hype.
    5. Favourite song from the year?
    I don't know...Probably something from Mumford and Sons. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Mumford and Sons
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Didn't make a resolution, plan on doing one this year though!
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    I came out. :slight_smile:
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    Not anyone I can think of. :astonished:
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    High school is tough, sexuality is confusing, hoping it gets better!
    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    Questioning my sexuality has been a huge deal.
    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Not really..
    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Nah
    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    I'm not sure..Pretty dull year.. Coming out was a good memory I guess. :slight_smile:
    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    House, food, and a few accepting family members
    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Might make my first new years resolution! Staying up til dawn or later on new years. :grin:
    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?
    I plan on coming out completely but don't really count on it too much. I hope 2013 is a happier year!
    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    Probably 1. It's been a rough year
    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I dunno, I guess we'll see! I'd like to think I will be though. :slight_smile:
     
  6. hello1992

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Contemplating career after graduation.

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Worked as a lifeguard and backpacked around Malaydia

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?

    Don't have one, wish i had though!

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?

    Euro crisis (i'm such a geek -_-

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Tough!! Can't choose

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    Riahhana?? Armin Van buuren?

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    I guess to try new things, definitely did!

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    The amount of work i put in last year for my exams.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    No idea.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Yes, life sucks hard!

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?

    Not really except a realization of many things about myself and the future.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    Yeah, tried coke :s

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    Lifeguard qualification

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    The 3 weeks i spent in Malaysia and Singapore backpacking with my brothers

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    Arguing with one of my best friends over something stupid.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    Friends

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Christmas dinner with family. Watch the fireworks in central london perhaps??

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?

    Work like a bitch for my finals and sort my life out. I hope i will be a lot clearer on what i want and i just hope everything thats so f*cked up right now will work out.

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    Its been a very volatile year. Some really good times but some really shit times; too many shit times which have been most recent, so probably been the worst year.
    => 2??

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Probably, being part of this community has at least made me feel less alone in my issues.
     
  7. Fiddledeedee

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Becoming ill with CFS/ME.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    I went to Soul Survivor, and did very little else!

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Unexpectedly, I got a boyfriend in October. We're going along just fine.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    The US election; it's the first time I've taken an interest in politics.

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    No fair, that changes by the minute!

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    This I can answer: Lindsey Stirling, who I'm listening to right now after getting her album earlier today.

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    My resolution was to not self-harm. Have I kept it? Hell yeah.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Being able to help others more.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    My mother. She fights so many battles with school to get me an education while I'm ill.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    I've learned about not doing too much. This is partly physical, since I'm unable to now that I'm unwell, and partly emotional; since I'm supporting others now, I have to not completely spend myself emotionally.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    It's been a pretty eventful year, what with Soul Survivor, falling ill, getting a boyfriend, repairing my relationship with Mom, getting known on TV Tropes, and so on. Yes, I know that last one was a change in tone!

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Hm, possibly several. One is that I'm in a relationship and not yet 16, which I didn't intend, say, three years ago.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    A Science GCSE (now I'm doing the Additional Science course) at an A, and the RYA YSS Level 2, a sailing certificate.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    My time at Soul Survivor, praying with others and being prayed for by them.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Haven't got drunk yet, sorry! Having an English lesson in my pyjamas when everyone at my main school was in uniform wasn't particularly, as strange as that may seem.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My walking. My boyfriend. My mother. My music.

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    A quiet Christmas and New Year at home, but heading to my grandparents' on Boxing Day to meet up with my brother and indulge in excellent cooking; sadly, my stepsisters aren't in the country this year.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?
    I haven't thought of any to make yet. This year has been pretty good -- much better than being 14.

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    Last year was a 7 or 6, perhaps. This is more of an 8 or 9 despite illness, which is awesome.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Perhaps; I've been on less lately. I hope so, though, as I love you guys!
     
  8. Tetraquark

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Realizing I was queer was probably the single biggest change, especially since it set off a chain reaction of other changes.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Mostly moped around my dad's house trying to recover from the events of the first half of the year.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    I didn't have any relationships, though my one major crush ended about as badly as possible. At least now I'm talking to someone online. Hopefully that will go well.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    Sandy Hook, obviously, but that's mostly because it was so recent. The presidential election didn't register that much with me.

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    It's hard to choose. I would say either "Pleaides" by Julia Kent or the orchestral version of "Connect" from Madoka Magica.

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    It's a tie between Julia Kent and the artist who did the soundtrack of Madoka.

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I didn't make any resolutions.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Getting a 3.5 in Analysis. Seriously, that class was hard!

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    I would have to say my dad for letting me stay with him in spite of having his issues to deal with.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Yes. Many, in fact -- too many to list.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    The whole year was one big life-changing experience. Realizing I was queer, getting my heart smashed to pieces, having my mom kick me out of the house, developing depression...

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    I signed up for a dating website.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Not really, but my programming keeps improving. I've started to learn Java and C++. This will help me get a job once I'm out of school.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Discovering Puella Magi Madoka Magica. It's such a sad show, but it's the best thing to happen to me all year.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    ...going along with some people to draw a Pentagram in front of the library because the girl I liked was one of them probably wins this category. I spent the next week worrying about whether I would get in trouble for it. I would have worried longer if it hadn't been for the fact that the girl ended our friendship the following weekend.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    I appreciate having a place to stay for the break. At the beginning of the semester I was afraid I wouldn't have one.

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Nothing, really, except hang out with my dad and maybe play some Skyrim.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?
    I'm not making any this year other than to continue with my self-care routine that I've been developing.

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    I gave it a two in the poll, but in reality it's more complicated than that. While the year was that bad, I'm glad it happened. I'm no longer the person I was this time last year. I've learned some important things about myself and about life.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I don't know. I would like to be.
     
  9. timo

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year? Definitely coming out! Even though I'm not out to everyone it's a huge change.

    2. What did you do over the summer? I went to a few music festivals with friends, worked, hung out w/ friends in general. It was a good summer.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends? Non-existant.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012? International news? Obama's re-election. National? The Dutch prince Friso going into a coma because of a skiing accident. It happened while I was on a skiing trip myself, that's why it stuck with me.

    5. Favourite song from the year? Hard one. So many good songs came out this year. I'll say Inhaler by Foals.

    6. Favourite artist this year? While She Sleeps!

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them? I don't do new years resolutions.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Again, coming out.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)? I honestly don't know.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months? Yes, enough.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012? It gets a bit boring but yes, again... coming out.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do? No. Unless I'm allowed to play the 'coming out' card for the fourth time :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications? I successfully finished my internship.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year? I have a lot. All friends I came out to were accepting. I've had a great summer with festivals and friends, a great skiing trip with family.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)? I almost crashed my car into another one because I wasn't paying enough attention... was a good lesson. Probably not the most stupid thing I did but I can't recall another one haha.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment? My friends.

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year? I'm spending Christmas with my parents in the town they live. I drive back home the 27th and NYE will be spent there with friends and booze.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different? Like I said I don't make new years resolutions. I do want to come out to my other friends and my family, and I hope to find a boyfriend somewhere next year.

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)? 8

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year? Yes. You're all great people.
     
  10. FunnyMonkey

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    slowing down on my drinking

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    I just work, i know right.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    No,thanks for reminding me lol

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    The Ron Paul revolution.

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    some night by fun.

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    I really didn't have one

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Yes I did and didn't keep them, but I did try.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)? Getting accepted into college

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    My friend she has really gotten her life back on the right track.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Just a few.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    Yes almost drowning.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    No, I didn't but I still have some time

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Nope

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    I really didn't have any this year.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    Drunk storie. Waking up on a beach naked with 50 dollars in one's that I didn't have before I don't know what happen too. :shrug:


    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My friends

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    With my with family and working

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?
    Yes, I did, I'm going to come out!! (!)
    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    a 4 I just work this year
    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Yes I will be
     
  11. Pret Allez

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    I give the year an 8. +10 for being really fun, low stress for the most part, and a fulfilling year of meeting new friends and making positive lifestyle changes. -2 for bad sex.

    Overall, fantastic year, and I looked forward (as of Dec 21, aka, Real New Years) to a better one.
     
  12. Fairybread

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year? getting a job and earning some of my own money :grin:

    2. What did you do over the summer? I'm working heaps, and enjoying the sun :grin: (not the heat, though).

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends? the one I had was good :slight_smile:

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012? Marriage Equality Bill Goes Before Parliament

    5. Favourite song from the year? Try - Pink

    6. Favourite artist this year? dunno :confused:

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them? Nups!

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)? coming out to a few friends :slight_smile:

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)? My friend TJ

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months? How to take care of myself

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012? I don't think so :slight_smile:

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do? told my mum how I feel about how she treats me

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications? Finished highschool, gained a qualification in first aid, and got a job :grin: (not in that order)

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year? My trip to New Caledonia :slight_smile:

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)? falling off my bike on a straight, flat piece of road?

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment? My friends :grin: wouldn't be here today if it weren't for them

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year? Same as always, family, food, presents, church ^_^

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different? No, but I hope to lose a bit of weight :slight_smile:

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)? 5

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year? most definitely!
     
  13. koilfong

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    finding and accepting myself as gay

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    ap homework, road trip, and reading

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    it lasted two days.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    sperm being made from stem cells

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    try / locked out of heaven

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Live Oak Revue

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    i think i made some... and no.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    being able to get back up when the going got though.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    definitely my sister.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    nothing too hard, but that people tend to come and go without warning

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    i lost my best friend..

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    no.. not really

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    i can drive with someone over the age of 25

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    disneyland with friends

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    my friends and i got kicked out of barnes and noble for performing private concerts in the children's section

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    the people who support me ten times more than my parents.

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    family time i guess.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?
    go vegetarian & manage expenses more carefully. i hope everything is different.

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    6 1/2 - 7

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    yes.
     
  14. Kidd

    Kidd Guest

    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    The biggest change in my life this year was definitely my internship. I had to cut people out of my life because of their...extracurricular activities. And I had to say goodbye to my party monster days. I grew up really quickly and took on A LOT of responsibility all at once because of it. But I have no regrets at all.

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    I worked two internships. The one I've been working all year, and then I worked in my hometown's Clerk of Courts office which was absolutely horrific. I worked for a real life Miranda Priestly.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?

    I didn't date at all this year until about October. My "ex" got back into my life briefly at the beginning of this semester, we fell out of touch again. I met a football dude and a cop, both of whom I felt a lot for, and it's presumably mutual...but we'll see how it works out with them. The story is still on-going. ^_^

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?

    The Dark Knight shootings in Aurora.

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    I don't know, I have too many.

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    Too many, maybe Macklemore.

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    Yes, I wanted to run more often, go farther, just be generally fitter and healthier and I did that and more. That's my goal for next year too.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Accidentally catching a woman who was smuggling drugs. None of the probation officers I was interning with suspected anything. It was totally, 100%, my catch. And, I'm also pretty proud that I passed statistics.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    The people that I've been tutoring. They all passed their classes this year. And, more importantly, I'm pretty proud of my mom. She was diagnosed with breast cancer at the beginning of this semester, in September, and she's been really strong throughout this whole ordeal. I love that we can laugh about it and talk about it and not let it change things.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    You can't save everybody, and not everyone wants to be saved.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?

    Oh, a ton. Way too many to list here. 2012 was cray.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    I crawled through a crack den's attic looking for a hidden drug stash because I was the only one on the scene small enough to get in it, none of the officers could fit in it. Never thought I'd ever be looking for heroin.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    Not really "qualifications." I got a lot of job experience under my belt this year though.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    Laying in a hammock in my best friend's back yard with her on my 21st birthday, both of us dying from our food babies and totally wasted on margaritas, just laughing together and looking at the stars. ^_^

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    Hmm...probably the time my friends and I had a field party this summer. I lost my ID at my sister's apartment the week before I went to this party. The police showed up at the field and almost took me back to the police station for underage consumption even though I'm really over 21. They didn't believe me because I'm so babyfaced. I managed to talk my way out of that one. My parents would have been pissed if they had to come down to the police station at 4:00 in the morning just to confirm what I'd already said.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    My friends and my family, definitely. I'm so glad I get more time to spend with them. My puppy of the last 10.5 years went downhill fast and it depresses me that I didn't get more time to spend with her. I feel like I wasted so many opportunities to make memories.

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Just the usual. See family. Hang out with friends. Relax between semesters.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?

    I hope I can genuinely fall in love next year. Other than that...I'm as happy as I can be I suppose.

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    6/10. This year was pretty good until yesterday.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Yes, of course.
     
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  15. Hexagon

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Uh... I went vegetarian

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    I played videogames

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?

    I don't date

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?

    Phone hacking, maybe? Or Syria.

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Dunno

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    Muse

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    No, and No

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    I wrote a book. Well, almost. Its nearly done.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    No one

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Yes. I learnt that despite their claims and their religion, my parents do lie, and that they lied about something really important.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?

    Yeah, probably

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    I went vegetarian. I was pretty surprised when I did that.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    No

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    Getting hormone treatment

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    I haven't drunk anything this year. Actually, I don't recall actually doing anything people would consider stupid. More life what I haven't done.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    My cat

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Play videogames

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?

    I resolve to not eat any meat during 2013

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    5

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Yeah, got nowhere better to be.
     
  16. julia

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Realizing I'm gay.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Worked a lot, hung out with some close friends, and went to Ocean City.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Nonexistent, as usual.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    Reelection of President Obama.

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Born To Die by Lana Del Rey

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Lana Del Rey

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I think my resolution was to come out...ha! That didn't really happen. I guess i'll use it again next year.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Getting out of a job I absolutely loathed.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    Myself, honestly.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Far too many. I grew up quite a bit this year.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    Yes.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Hmm, probably but nothing comes up on the top of my head.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    I got a new job?

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    My trip to New York City with a close friend in August was fun, honestly I didn't do much this year and nothing really stand out. Sad, I know.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Getting far too drunk at a Halloween party, when i know I can't handle my alcohol.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My friends and family, going to college, getting lost in movies.

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Christmas I stayed home with my parents and sister and for New Years I'm probably going to be spending it with a close friend. I loathe New Years though, I always have the worst time.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?
    Yes. My outlook on life.

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    In the poll I put 6 but it was more of a 5.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Most likely.
     
  17. unbreakable

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    I came completely out the closet and accepted myself and got the most amazing girlfriend in the process. unfortunately it meant losing my job :frowning2:

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    I tried my best to spend as many days as I could out in the sun enjoying life. really it was the best summer ever!

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Interesting.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    Humm for some reason it's not a news story but the women's Olympic beach volleyball teams. lol...

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    City and color - fragile bird

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Don't have one
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I wanted to be more true to myself ... I would say I definitely succeeded :slight_smile:

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    I stood up for what I believe. even if it cost me everything.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    My little sister for being the stubbornly strong independent woman she's become.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Yes. if you reject your bosses advances and speak up about it, you will lose your job. true story sadly.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    Yes I met the most beautiful woman.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Yes, I accepted myself.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    I am so much wiser than I was... if that counts lol

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    It's a toss up between seeing pink floyd the wall in concert and meeting my girlfriend.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Not standing up for myself sooner.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My family and friends and dog

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Xmas with my brothers family. Probably spend new years snuggled up with the girlfriend watching tv or something ridiculously tame.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?
    To focus on getting a proper career where I won't be harassed and discriminated.

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    This year was a crazy one, I'll have to say it was a 6.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I hope so, but who knows!
     
  18. Sartoris

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Coming out to my mother.

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Pretty much anything I've done during the other three seasons. :confused:

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?

    N/A

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?

    It's hard to say, so many things happen, both good and bad, I don't know what in particular will stick in my mind.

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    [Shrugs.] Hard to say, either I couldn't name a specific one or would be too embarrassed to do so. :lol:

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    William Faulkner. :grin:

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    Probably, but I can't remember them....

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Either having started to attend my LGBT group or seeing a therapist.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    Suppose my mother comes to mind. Particularly this year because despite having various personal concerns of her own, she's still managed to provide some degree of support.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    How important it is to have, or at least work towards finding, people you can open up to.

    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?

    Though it started last Autumn, I'd basically say working towards accepting the fact I like guys.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    Come out to people in person.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    [Shrugs.]

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    Being able to get to know some fellow EC'ers well for the first time.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    Other than my general inactivity, I can't think of anything particularly stupid.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    That I'm not feeling extremely depressed and that, hopefully, I'm beginning to strengthen my personal relationships.

    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Nothing special, but just trying to stay somewhat positive.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?

    Mainly to find a job, but also to eventually start working on developing my college plans, continue working on trying to make friends as well as meeting other guys [even if a relationship isn't in the immediate future.]

    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    Somewhere between a four and a six.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Yes, definitely. :slight_smile:
     
  19. inthedark4eva

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    unemployment due to medical issues
    2. What did you do over the summer?
    absolutely nothing
    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    what's a relationship?
    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    sadly, the shootings in Newtown, Connecticut
    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Bully - Shinedown
    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Shinedown
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    don't do New Year's resolutions
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    survived
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    ehh
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    too many to mention
    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    not really
    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    nope
    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    nope
    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    2012 sucked
    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    nothing that stands out in my mind
    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    family and true friends (which are few and far between)
    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    family Christmas dinner....nothing else
    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?
    no resolutions for me
    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    3....sadly, I've had worse
    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    hopefully
     
  20. BradThePug

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    I decided to leave religion for good.
    2. What did you do over the summer?
    I moved an elementary school library. I recovered from a car wreck. I also had to help clean-up after the major storms hit central Ohio.
    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Non-existant..lol.
    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2012?
    The amount of mass shootings that happened this year. The one that pops into my mind first is Chardon. It's 15 min from where I go to college at.
    5. Favourite song from the year?
    The best of times- Dream theater
    6. Favourite artist this year?
    A tie between Skrillex and Dream Theater
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I made a resolution to be out to almost everybody. I'm actually surprised that I kept that one..
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    It's a tie between being almost completely out and making the dean's list for the first time.
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    I am most proud of my parents. They stuck beside me and helped defend me while I was coming out. They also had to deal with many of the same issues that I had to deal with too.
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    I learned that working really hard pays off in the end. I thought that I was going to fail this semester, but I ended up making the deans list.
    11. Have you had any life-changing experiences in 2012?
    The car wreck taught me that life can change in an instant. I also learned that from the storms that hit central ohio. Both of these events taught me to live my life the way I want to, because there might not be a tomorrow.
    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    I came out to my former youth director/second cousin. I also came out to most of my extended family. I also left religion for good. I never thought that I would do that.
    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    I became a cameraperson for the university football team. I also learned how to be a technical director.
    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Becoming a mod here!
    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    My friends had to drag me to the clinic because I had phenomena. I had refused to go to because I just thought that I had the flu. I almost ended up in the hospital.
    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My parents, my cat and dog and my friends.
    17. What are/were your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Hang out at home with family and friends. I don't really do anything special. We are having a family party on Thursday that celebrates Christmas and New Year's.
    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2013? What do you hope will be different?To come out to the the rest of the people that I need to tell. Also, to continue to get decent grades.
    19. How do you rate 2012 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    A 2. This year sucked. Between car wrecks and severe weather, this was not a good year. I also had one of my depressive episodes in the middle of the year.
    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Yep. I'll still be around here!