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Does anal sex hurt?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by wonderingdave01, Dec 26, 2012.

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  1. wonderingdave01

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    Well does it?
     
    #1 wonderingdave01, Dec 26, 2012
  2. toaster

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    It depends. If you're able to relax your muscles, it doesn't
     
    #2 toaster, Dec 26, 2012
  3. Lance

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    If you are doing it right, no it does not hurt and can be extremely pleasurable.
     
    #3 Lance, Dec 26, 2012
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    If its done right. It feels like you have to take a poop
     
    #4 ok455, Dec 26, 2012
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    Extremely pleasurable is an understatement lol....u relax and take it slow ( at first) :slight_smile: then you'll be fine
     
    #5 onlythebulls13, Dec 26, 2012
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    If you're not prepped good enough and/or you're not relaxed then yes, it does.
     
    #6 julia, Dec 26, 2012
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    If you're extremely nervous, go too fast, don't use enough lube, or have sex with an asshole, then yes, it probably hurts.

    If you're relaxed, take it slow, use enough lube and have sex with a nice guy, it's not supposed to hurt. And if it does, it should be more of a pleasurable pain, if that makes sense.

    There's no guarantee you'll like it, but it deffinitely shouldn't hurt :slight_smile:
     
    #7 justinf, Dec 26, 2012
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    As said, if it does still hurt after a lot of time and preparation, take a break! It never hurts to pause and just spend time with your partner.
     
    #8 Daniel, Dec 26, 2012
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    No. Taking it up the ass feels amazing. I recommend it to every single person.
     
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    wouldn't say it hurt just a little uncomfortable at first but given time and your relaxed it feels fantastic.
     
    #10 leer, Dec 27, 2012
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    sex on the receiving end hurts. period.
     
    #11 isobella, Dec 27, 2012
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    um, i'm pretty sure you're doing it wrong
     
    #12 gordilocks, Dec 27, 2012
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    That's very important. A nice guy will help you relax, an asshole just want to get it done
     
    #13 toaster, Dec 27, 2012
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    Yeah, I second that. It apparently hurts for you, but to say it hurts for everyone is just not true.
     
    #14 justinf, Dec 27, 2012
  15. ptacub

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    It depends. It hurts initially when you first start.
    You need to finger your partner first (using proper, store-bought lube) and stretch it. Then, when your partner is relaxed, you have to slowly penetrate and go as slow as your partner needs to feel comfortable.
     
    #15 ptacub, Dec 27, 2012
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