Am I ugly... I mean come on, I am

C'mon man don't say that, your not ugly at all. I agree that when I see some of the guys on this site I think damn, this dude is fine as hell and yes it does make me feel ugly but that doesn't mean I'm ugly.
I'm your stereotypical pot head, nerd with glasses, get away with wearing things that would be seen as gay just because everyone who knows me sees me as a straight nerdy stoner who just doesn't give a fuck about fancy clothes and shit
Just be yourself and be confident, those two things make men so sexy to me. Your not ugly at all, if I saw you walking down the street, you'd definitely would get a double take

 

You know when people say "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" they were't fucking kidding. YOU don't get to say whether your attractive or not. The rest of us do.

You want the truth? No, you arn't ugly. In fact, going purely off the few pics I have seen of you, I wouldn't say no if you asked me out.

Now stop beating yourself up. Emoness is not a trait I like in a guy. >_>

 

Yea, I'm serious.... If were at a bar, I'm hitting on you all night. Don't be so apprehensive when it comes to you being attractive, I'm telling you, you are very attractive and I think you know it....maybe you've gone through some sort of denial and now your second guessing your looks.... You are attractive at least to me you are

 

Unless you're photoshopping/airbrushing your pics then they CAN'T make you look better. If anything they make you look worse, at least in my experience they do.

 

I think you look alright matey allot better than some of the mingers I see in bars when am out dont be so hard on yourself .(*hug*)

 

'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder'

 

well, my 90 year old gramma used to compare herself to 20 year old girls. I told her that is so unfair to herself, she needs to compare to nobody! She was gorgeous!

Why are you comparing yourself say to a guy in Greece, or one with a tan in Cali, or hey want to compare yourself to me? I am not even transitioned yet...who is better looking man?

I think God gives us what we got...got to work with that. Best thing we can do...yup coming from somebody who is not happy with appearance...is love ourself as who we are, not look at magazines that are airbrushed, and not say our nose should look like this, our forehead like this...or we are not good enough to be loved. Dude, love yourself 1st, not arrogant asshole like, just see you are clean, dressed well, and have a great smile. Be genuine guy, love others and yourself...and men and women will be attracted to you and want to be your friend. And the guys you want to find you handsome will find it from within...I have only been truly attracted to personality...if they are hot but jerks or have no self esteem I fade off.

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^ that!

 

I feel the same. I think we see our own flaws x1000 compared to what others actually see...I sometimes look in the mirror and I'm just like 'ew', but then I have to realise my face is like 2 inches from the mirror and I've only just woken up.

Confidence is a huge factor too, a lot of people are way more attractive when they have some confidence behind their looks (not arrogance though). I think maybe that's my problem. I find I get more attention when I'm drunk and have some liquid confidence inside me.

 

You're far from ugly man.

However self-confidence is attractive. If you think you're ugly, people will pick up on that and be like 'da faq? Why does he think he's ugly? There must be something wrong with him'.

Appreciate yourself and what you have. I mean, no-ones perfect, but I'm thankful for my good qualities in appearance and my bad qualities simply heighten my good. At least... that's my train of thought, right? haha

 

The biggest reason you find yourself unattractive is probably because you're not your type. You are attracted to guys who look different, and you don't fit those criteria so in your eyes you're not attractive. Just for fun check out a few of the "cute or not, hot guy, etc" threads and you'll see there's quite a variety of "types" that some but not all people find attractive.

 

You're not ugly man. I mean, sure, there are a lot of guys who are better looking, but it does not mean that you are ugly. And sometimes, physical features that may seem like a liability can actually be an asset. That's why models some have really huge foreheads or crooked teeth, because physical beauty comes in different varieties.

 

You not ugly at all shut up!! lol don't worry we all have different tastes and I've seen some guys on here who I'm like OMG i'd tap that and I think they are sexy af but it doesn't mean I'm ugly. The one thing that makes me intimidated is when a guy has more muscle then me.... Like I love a guy with muscle but if I see guys with muscle I feel like "fuck I'm so fat and ugly" even though I'm really fit and thin I just have a huge issue gaining muscle. I used to have an ED when I was younger and after I got help I gained alot if weight and became obese I then lost all that weight in grade 8 and I guess after I started feeling more confident in myself I trusted my looks and I became to cocky and even when I was popular I still felt intimidated by a ton of guys an I still do. What I'm getting at is many people don't find themselves attractive models included in that your not alone I still feel ugly to this day . But again you are not ugly you are thin and have good looks USE it flaunt your body I know some people like me feel better and more confedint with a thin or fit body if you have it flaunt it

 

I think your cute