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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MidnightOwl, Dec 27, 2012.

  1. MidnightOwl

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    All right so I have a partner, and am in a long distance relationship. However, we often times have sex and what not. Though she is also at work right now. But I'm in the mood and not in the mood for the alone sex either. I want her.

    So what do you do to get your mind off the thought of your partner and you doing the deed so to speak?
     
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    Oh man, that's a tough question. I guess it's even harder for me to answer this since I don't please myself. I'm single now, but when I was dating a woman and I was in the mood, I would usually just text her and tell her. That alone would get her in the mood and we'd started "sexting", lol. That would usually help me, but I guess that would probably make you feel worse. >_<

    Try to keep yourself busy. Whatever your hobbies are, try doing them.
     
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    I already flirted with her on her break. We had super flirty time. Now it's all about waiting for her. Btw, I'm not into pleasing myself either. I rather have a physical object or in this case, well the imagination of a physical object. lol
     
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    Oh, so you already flirted, lol. ;D Well, like I said you should probably just find something to do. I used to be in a long distance relationship (about a 2 hour distance) and I would clean, shower, and make things look really nice for her for when she arrived at my house. If I was done before her arrival, I'd find something interesting to do online.
     
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    Yes, I'm trying to busy myself with talk of comics and stuff, lol. And floating around Empty Closets.
     
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    Good! Then when she arrives, ATTACK! :grin:
     
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    I know. I'm ready. Like a cheetah, lol.
     
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    Rofl! What a wonderful example! Have fun! :wink:
     
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    I know it gives so much detail. Reminds me of the Lions of Lion King suddenly. Hmmm...wonder if musexicals will be up on the table, lol.
     
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    Lmao. That's awesome. XD I've never seen the musical, but that happens to be my favorite Disney movie. ;p

    So has she arrived yet? Or are you still trying to kill time?
     
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    She has come home, but is playing a video game with her brother so I'm eagerely awaiting to tear into her. Oh my starting to frighten myself.

    And what I meant is in the Lion King the animated film they were basically wooing each other in musical song form. "Can you feel the love tonight" and they snuggled, kissed the way Lions would.
     
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    Lmao! Oh my! O_O

    Oh my goodness, that's so cute! That scene always warms my heart. :3
     
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    Whaaa? You're totally not weird. If anything, it's cute! :3 Nothing wrong with wanting someone.

    LOL! Oh my word, that is hilarious. XD I appreciate Snape humor. Kudos!
     
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    Well I want a great deal. lol

    I know it's great I saw that photo and was like, roflmao.
     
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    So? Isn't she willing to give you a great amount? I surely wish I had someone who wanted a great deal. It's awesome to feel wanted. But that's my own fault since I don't go out much, and I don't exactly look like a lesbian. :confused:
     
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    Imo, it isn't about whether or not someone looks like a lesbian or behaves like one. It is simply someone who is smart, educated, and intelligent. Oh she is willing just I have to wait cause she is playing video games still. lol. We have the strange relationship quirk of having to wait till each other's game time is over.
     
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    That's actually a preference; someone who is intelligent. Someone who acts as if they are uneducated is a complete turn-off. But it's so hard to meet women here when you don't go out to clubs or LGBT gatherings. And meeting someone any other way is nearly impossible for me since people are shocked when I tell them I like women, lol.
     
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    I find I can be bold sometimes. It just often and always will be awkward. I don't really have a Genderqueerdar.
     
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    My problem is, even if I'm interested in someone who is gay, I will not pursue that person. I'm extremely outgoing, but I hate making the first move. I could have the biggest crush on someone, and they will never know.
    I actually have a very strong gaydar/gendergueerdar/etc. I guess it's my own fault since I don't go to gatherings and I never pursue anyone. >_<