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Cougars

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BoiGeorge, Dec 31, 2012.

  1. BoiGeorge

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    Is anyone else into older women/men? Like me and my girl have a 6 year age gap between us (shes 23). Ive always been attracted to older women. Never dated a girl younger than me. I find I can relate more to older chciks. Anyone else dig cougars?!
     
  2. Anthemic

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    YES. I prefer older women. Typically ages 23-40. Taller women too. 5'4" and up. <3
     
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    I feel a little bit too inexperienced next to someone much older than me. Like, they've been through so much more, and I'm just starting out. I think once I get older, I'll have less of an issue with it, since I'll feel more on the same level as the other woman.
     
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    I dont usually have crushes on olde men, but i do occasionally get a few. I had this big crush on this guy sitting opposite me on the tube. He must have been approaching 30, but he was so cute. May even have been gay...

    But i cant imagine getting involved with anyone older than me, my lack of experience would amke sure of that anyway. i need someone who i can relate to...
     
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    Yeah i like it if their older from about 18-25 would be ideal for me
     
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    I'm totally into older women. I mostly date people my own age just for convenience's sake given that I'm a minor, but there's something inherently attractive about an older person who has their life (relatively) figured out. Plus, there's that teacher/student trope that's in almost every lesbian film ever, so that might be part of it.
     
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    I usually work best with somebody who is a year or two older. I'm not necessarily opposed to dating somebody older than that, but more than 5 or 6 years would be too much for me. I may be attracted to them, I just wouldn't be in a relationship with that big of an age gap (4 years is the most I've had in the past). Dating younger people hasn't worked out well for me though.
     
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    Not that I would ever act on the attractions, but I am only into adult men, guys my age just seem to young for my taste. I usually prefer the look of men in their late 20s to mid 30s.
     
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    This ^_^
     
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    my first experience was with a guy 12 years older than me .
     
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    Define older. With girls I don't really care, I usually go for girls my age or slightly younger. My boyfriend however is 5 and a half years older than me. I like the fact that he's quite mature.
     
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    Hmm. I'm not really swayed by age. I've met women I've liked that have been as young as 18, and as old as 40. I guess for me it's more about how they carry themselves, how they treat others, and the things about them personally that make them really shine to me. I like nice people, and I fear aggressive people, although if she was a bit playfully pushy once we're comfortable that might not be bad.
     
  13. hmph

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    my boyfriend's 3.5 years older than me!
    and i have had a few serious crushes on people in their 30s. i love intelligence, and older people tend to have more.