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Straight men like dumb blondes...... Do gay men love dumb men?

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  1. Alexander69

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    Ok So like that says ^ do any gay men like good looking dumb guys?
     
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    I do..
    Then again, I am a smart guy, so I would feel superior to them in SOMETHING. Dumb guys are hotter...always
     
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    I couldn't deal with a dumb girlfriend.... i mean, some level of ignorance is tolerated, but its to the point where she doesn't know where cheese comes from.. that's where i draw the line.
     
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    I'm a girl... But intelligent girls are the only ones I'm really attracted to. I need someone who can have the same level of intellectual interaction with me. Girls who aren't as intellectual are rather charming, in a way, but I need someone who understands me.

    God, I'm such an elitist. :lol:
     
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    No. I'd hook up with a dumb guy, but I wouldn't date him.
     
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    I don't understand lol.
     
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    wait why
     
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    I wouldn't look for anything special in a dumb guy. I'd just try to seduce him then break his heart once he gets attached. I need to be with someone who can speak to me at my own level.
     
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    It has been my experience that less intelligent people are less interesting to me because they can't maintain conversations that display an interest in learning about the workings of the world around them. I'm sure that there exist below-average intelligence people who do display curiosity about the world, but I haven't met any of them yet.
     
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    I can't maintain a relationship with a box of rocks. But I don't really want someone too smart. I'd like to be able to learn from and teach a guy.
     
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    No. I've never been attracted to men who seem dumb.
     
  12. vani

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    so just use him that sounds horrible I mean I wouldn't want someone dumber or smarter than me but I wouldn't use someone then on top of that BREAK THERE HEARTS
     
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    I agree, that's pretty unethical. I'm gonna hope that was unserious...
     
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    No.

    Really I find it very frustrating to have to deal with stupid people in any way. Not worth it. I want a guy whom I know is actually going to think about things deeply the way I do and have an intelligent conversation. They don't have to be geniuses but they do have to have some sort of higher thought processes going on up there.
     
  15. vani

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    Don't worry i'm usually not serious (*hug*)
     
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    I'd think the whole dumb blond encompasses not only straight, but other orientation categories too. Though I don't know if it's as malicious (I couldn't think of a word more appropriate to use) as wanting someone who is specifically stupid, but more they are thinking, "they don't know ____ how cute oh god"
     
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    I wouldn't say I am attracted to dumb guys.

    Maybe if he was my type and was sweet and caring. Basically a big dumb teddy bear then yes I would be attracted.

    However. I think for the most part I need some depth and darkness in those eyes of his...
     
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    Intelligence is very sexy to me. Very. If the guy can't hold a conversation, lacks common sense, or just acts stupid, it's going to be a no-go.
     
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    The question has as a premise a false generalisation about straight men, but anyway...

    No, not me. The more intelligent someone is, the more i am attracted to them. If i feel someone is smarter than me, i am instantly wooed. I want to be with someone smarter than me one day, i just hope that someone doesn't mind being with someone dumber than them =P
     
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    *facepalm*

    No, dude, that was me agreeing with you, and you were responding to someone else.