This one of things I HATE about being Bisexual. I'm in love with a straight guy, who always talks about sex and women I want him so bad! I keep fantasizing about him. It's been 2 going on 3 years that I haven't got over him. I wish he was attracted to the same sex but he isn't. It fucking sucks! :tantrum: Help me Emptyclosets, I can't take it any longer! :bang: What should I do?
Does he know you're bi? If he doesn't, there might be the possibility he's putting on a show, not to hide anything, just because he wants to (it's a slight possibility, but it's possible). Under the assumption he doesn't know your status, I'd say at most, you could tell him. It might be a risk, obviously. If he DOES know already, I guess you're gonna have to learn to cooperate with the idea of finding someone else. Sorry. I feel like I give pretty bad advice so you might just wanna disregard this post.
Haven't seen him in a while. But yeah, I have been thinking about telling him if I catch him again. He has a girlfriend anyway. I am, but since I haven't, he's just been on my mind. No, you're absolutely right.
I'm in the same boat, it really sucks! Lately I thought this one guy I liked was gay, since he asked me if I had a gf or not and he always left signs. Surprisingly enough, I still have no idea what he is, most likely leaning towards straight. But other guys I have met I wish were gay, are most defiantly straight. It's what comes with the fact of being gay/bi/trans/pan/etc..
First off, sorry about the formatting in this post. I'm not on a computer. I think the following three things really help: time - getting over someone takes time distance - it's important because its difficult to get over someone if you spend a lot of time with them distraction - finding something else to focus on is always great. This would be a great time to focus on meeting new people or starting a new hobby It won't make your feelings go away instantly but it can be useful. Good luck
