What do you do to convince another person that you're meant to be together?

1. When it comes to having a connection with someone, looks are not that important.

2. Are you just friends? Does he know you have an interest in making this more them friends? If he does does he show any indication that he wants more then just a friendship with you?

3. I would expect the things you're already doing. Interest shown, compatibility, support and help when needed.

I don't think you should ever have convince someone that you're meant to be together. Things have to happen naturally. Relationships don't develop due to convincing.

Good luck. I hope this works out for you.

 

Isn't it a bit of an oversight thinking that you are meant to be together without actually dating each other? Or am I missing something here?

If I'm not, then I think that you should actually make a move, despite your confidence issues and ask for a date. Once a relationship is established, then it will naturally build up to that point provided there are no major set backs.

 

I wouldn't want someone to "prove" to me that they were "meant" to be with me. How could they prove that to me and by what context are they "meant" to be with me? Is no one else suitable? Are they meant to fulfill some prophecy? They can not prove to me that they are and the latter two can be answered with "No." No one is "meant" to be with someone else by any stretch of the word. Instead of trying to convince me that they are, I would want them to let our relationship progress naturally. If I have no desire to be with him, then there is nothing he can do and further pressing the point would only make me feel alienated.

 

Well, if I remember rightly from another thread, he's already agreed to go on a date with you. So just try to relax and be yourself. If the spark is there, great. You can't force him to like you

 

The way I see it, if you're truly 'meant to be together', you shouldn't have to 'prove it' to him. Both parties should already know.

 

What BudderMC said.....if you have to convince them then you're probably not meant to be together.

 

As other people have mentioned, there is no way to "make" someone love you. It's impossible. In fact, even trying will likely produce the opposite effect; it may push them away (neediness is very unattractive, at least to people looking for healthy relationships).

There are things you can do to increase the change they'll develop feelings for you, such as being kind (but not excessively, like constantly sacrificing your own needs for theirs before they even have feelings for you), sensitive, confident (or appearing so), good hygiene (<- very important), developing your own interests (don't be a boring person who just sits around playing video games all the time. Even just showing determination to grow is attractive), respecting their needs. Just keep in mind that people don't fall in love based off of a score of attractiveness, simply being hot and smart is not sufficient to guarantee someone will love you (though they help ), it's the entire person that determines what other peoples feelings for you will be.

 

But the thing is, if you're talking about people who are 'meant to be', the other person will like you no matter what you are.

You can do a lot of things to change yourself to effectively be more generically 'popular', but it's not worth it if it's at the expense of your own happiness. It's a cheesy adage, but just be yourself.

 

Honey, it's not a job interview, you don't have to convince anyone that you're good enough. Just go on that date, have fun and see how things go. Give him some time. Don't do anything that would make you feel uncomfortable, just be yourself. I know that you want him to like you and he probably already likes you... just enjoy your date. (*hug*)

 

my friend I think it is his full acceptance and acknowledgment that you are really after. do you want him so bad because you have feelings for him? or is it because you desperatly want to feel loved by someone who you may consider superior and out of your league? as for looks, if it is such a big deal to you, there are MILLIONS of things you can do to improve that. including dressing styles, hairstyles, and fit bodies. just go with the mainstream, the ray.bans, they beats, you know all of the pop things trust me it works on helping your self confidence. your own acceptance to yourself is required if you want anyone to accept you, you know what I mean? hope it helps.

 

if you continue to worry about the date you`ll be a bag of nerves he knows you anyway so he will tell if your trying to hard to make him happy ''total turn off'' you need to be yourself
and enjoy the date try not to worry about everything .

 

Oh my friend... If you have to convince them it's time to move on. :dry:

 

Honey I mean this is the nicest way possible but you are coming on way too strong.

If someone came at me like that, I'd be looking to make a quick egress.

Just back it off a few notches and play it cool. Give the relationship time to develop rather than try to force it.

 

Well, I wish I had a pix of you to go on. If he has seen you before and likes you as is, then don't worry so much! Just be you 2.0, be extra nicely dressed on the date. Where are you going? Don't be stressed out on it, be as happy and carefree as if you were out on the town with a best buddy you feel comfy with for 20 years...then he can see your natural smile and personality come through and it will appear confident. Confidence is attractive, not arrogance, just confidence. So I really would work on that idea 1st, that you will not allow yourself to be a worry wort...just go out to have a fun time with a friend...then it will go from their naturally! If I did see how you look, maybe I could say how you could dress for your 1st date or do your hair, but generally just have it all really clean or new, and same style as you always wear...assuming you are just doing a casual 1st date. I am happy for you!

 

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